I am engaged to a girl who is funny, kind, sexy and who I like a lot. However, people keep saying that I am prettier than her and that I should not rush into marriage with her but look for a prettier girl instead. What do I do? Do I marry her or do I look for someone prettier? All of this pressure has made me confused.
2006-08-01 03:48:10 · 25 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She deserves someone who loves her rather than likes her.
She deserves someone who is concerned about the person inside rather than what she looks like.
She deserves someone who can think for himself rather than being pressured by other people.
She deserves someone who will love her forever, treat her like a queen and be commited to her with all his heart.
Is that you? If not, do her a favour and let her go so she can find someone who can give her all of that.
2006-08-01 10:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good grief......I can't even believe you're asking this question! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it's not what's outside that counts but the inside! I'm concerned because you say you're engaged and you "like" her a lot! Marriage is not something you do and if it doesn't work out you get a divorce. I'd consider my feelings before considering looks.
2006-08-01 10:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask a question like that, you are too young to get married... Looks and other people's opinions matter not. It's what's inside that counts. For every person that says you are "pretty" there are 10 who would disagree. The world is pretty big you know... And if you have to ask this question, it also means you don't have strong feelings for her..So don't marry until you are of age... Take care and good luck...
2006-08-01 10:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am hoping you are not seriously considering what these people are saying to you. How incredibly shallow and vain they are - and you will be if you follow their advice! You don't get married because you think someone is pretty - you marry for love and long term compatibility. Looks are fading - neither of you will look as "pretty" 20 years down the road as you do today.
2006-08-02 11:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you like her that is all that matters. She may not be gorgeous to others but as long as you think she is sexy why not stay with her. Looks are over rated. True good looking people can have good looking kids but usually people choose what they would like in a life partner. Looks fade but you will be stuck with the PERSON you marry. I think if you love her you should tell your family to back off. I am better looking than my husband but not by much. I have nicer skin and naturally straight teeth. I think he is a very good looking man and my girlfriends and family agree he is good looking. We are an attractive couple but if I were to go blind tomorrow or he were to go blind tomorrow or if I were to be horribly disfigured I know he would stick by me. Something has to be said for that. Tell your family to mind their own business and accept her the way she is like you have. Its your life, your choice, and I think you have made a good one. Looks are not all that matters.
2006-08-01 10:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how shallow and easily led you are? are you with this girl for her looks, for how you look as a couple, or for the reason you should be with someone, that little thing called love!
No, i don't think that you should rush into marrying her, but not because people keep saying that she's not asprettie as you, but because I think your too self obsessed to truly care for anyone other than your self! Read your question back to yourself..................!
2006-08-01 10:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by EMMA F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should look for someone prettier and more shallow. Get out of this relationship before you break her heart and look for someone who is nothing more than an arm trophy.
2006-08-01 13:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? All that matters is that YOU are attracted to her, not your friends. And YOU just said that she is sexy. If you are in love with her, than marry her. These are not very good friends that are telling you these things. Maybe they're just jealous. Looks are not going to matter when you guys are in your 80's, all that will matter is that you have your wife next to you, and she makes you laugh and treats you with kindness.
2006-08-01 12:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know if you want to marry somebody because of their looks then stop then engagement right now. YOu should never listen to what other people say you should know that. It doesn't sound as if you really love this person.
2006-08-01 11:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah go on be as shallow as possible dump her and get someone like Paris Hilton. I don;t think it's been proved yet if Paris has one brain cell let alone two. I am sure you will have lots to talk about - wordly affairs etc. should be a very exciting time.
2006-08-01 10:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Surely Not Bassey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋