he aint addicted or anythin but still
2006-08-01 03:41:45 · 30 answers · asked by Cami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he isn't addicted?
Are you sure? At the end of the day the man(?) still picked something else over you. You, by the sounds of it, issued him with an ultimation and he chose drugs.
Do you really want to be around someone like that?
Its your life but you are going to always going to be second best in a person like thats life and you DESERVE better.
Walk away with your head held high.
I used to know a lot of lads when I was a teenager who weren't addicted but spent alot of time doing drugs and now we are all in our late 20s' they are still doing them and they look awful!
Consider it a lucky escape.
2006-08-01 03:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen very closely. I am going through the exact same thing. When I found out he was doing drugs I was very much in love with him. And i still am. But because I gave him another chance he did everything he could to hide it from me. After about a month I found out he was still doing it. At that time he was so addicted that he would go out and not show up for a week or two. He constantly cheated and would cry his eyes out begging for forgiveness and promising to not do it again. He made me believe him by telling me it was side effects from the drug. I loved him so incredibily much that I would. Eventually he got to the point he was actually having the girls drop him off and pick him up at our home. About a month after that he was arrested and spent a year in prison. And I started to move on, but I was pregnant adn so when he got out I gave him another chance. And now I'm stuck here fighting for custody of my child because of his drug abuse. Do not let this happen to you. If he has already done the drug he's already addicted. Its a medical fact. Love yourself enough to not do this to yourself.
2006-08-01 03:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by AMBER K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be an addict now but give it time he has already picking the drugs over a relationship with you whats next ? food or drugs How his money will soon run out then he will try sponging money from you Your better off without him you need someone who will spend their money on you and not getting high.
2006-08-01 03:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same sit. my bf and the father of my child has done the samething. and now he is goin into rehab but i dont what to be with him anymore . trust me these drugs will ruin ur whole life and everything u have planned u can do better it hurts now but think about urself for once instead of him u will do so much better without him. it will take time to get over this there will be long day and even longer nights and there will be alot of tears but u r worth more then he can offer
2006-08-03 14:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends cos i nearly picked drugs over my girlfriend but didnt then i got dumped anyway because i was speaking to my pals who still did drugs .. drugs can make you want to escape reality . maybe there is some underlying problom he cant face and the drugs make him forget and push these probloms away like in a small box deep inside if your still with him goodluck if not you,ll find someone who dosnt do that type of thing just keep looking cos im still looking too lots of love david aka the baron
2006-08-01 04:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by the baron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him over the situation. Drug are easy to become addicted to and even though he hasn't yet, he will eventually. I think that I would also just move one after we have had a talk and cut his losses.
2006-08-01 04:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by J-Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really were that important to him, he would have chosen you. Time to move on, most guys (myself included) would choose their g/f etc. over ANYTHING else, as they are supposed to be the most important person/thing in your life. If you are not first in your partner's life, then you should find someone where you will be first in their life!
You say he is not addicted, sounds to me like he is!
2006-08-01 03:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by rogue_samurai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support his choice. Buy a trailer and ask him to move in. Move to central Florida with him. Build huge credit card debts at high interest rates. Lose a few front teeth. Drink too much. Get fat. Have children and ignore them. Or....just lose the loser.
2006-08-01 03:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Birdman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't count on the "not being addicted" comment....he is picking something over something human? that aside, why would you want to be 2nd to drugs? get rid of him, and find someone that will put you first
2006-08-01 05:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..and the problem is?...
even if he isn't addicted....(cough-whatever) drugs will make most people into a moody arsehat at best and psychopath at worst.
You are well rid, time to celebrate...pat yourself on the back and have a cookie
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2006-08-01 05:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋