sorry lol a kinda strange question but i was just wondering... do girls masturbate or do they just not talk about it as often as guys? i'm 16, have had sex, but i don't masturbate. some people say i should start... any thoughts tips or ideas lol?
also, do guys get more pleasure than girls when masturbating?
any comments from guys and girls would be really appreciated x
2006-08-01 03:38:22 · 21 answers · asked by -x- Sugar Sweet -x- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oops sorry i phrased my first question wrong: i know girls DO masturbate, but do they masturbate as often as guys? it's sorta a taboo subject with girls but all my guy mates talk about it openly.
2006-08-01 03:57:25 · update #1
Girls do masturbate ... maybe not as often as guys but all the same they do. I'd love to be a girl ... I reckon they could masturbate longer (and have more orgasms) because a guuy usually goes soft after he's finished and has to take a breather before he can get hard again.
If you're only 16, you should be masturbating rather than having sex ... OK so you're probably legally old enough, but one mistake could lead to a lifetime of misery. I suggest you and your boyfriend masturbate together and get some enjoyment out of that ... It's always nice to watch a girl pleasuring herself!
2006-08-01 03:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I do reckon that guys masturbate more than girls but only because we have different system...
The reason is because guys can get it over and done with in a much shorter time period to girls.
So if there was 5 minutes to spare before doing something... a guy could have a quick tug. Girls on the other hand wont get the same luxury.
Again.. I am a guy and not 100% on this... but girls need to have a fantasy type thing going on to get excited... and more time to stimulate and all the other masturbating stuff.
Guys can just think of sexy things and before they know, there as strong as a tree. I think you get the picture.
I am also surprised you havent masturbated yourself yet... Most people have masturbated well before having the opportunity to have sex. I think you should do this because its about nderstanding your own body. Wait till your home alone, sit back and enjoy.
2006-08-01 11:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you know honey don't worry about what people say, what you do is up to you. whatever you feel most comfortable about. i used to get a grossed out thinking about touching myself and putting my fingers inside my vagina but now i've grown to love it. you should take a little time to explore your own body - some girls don't even know which hole their vagina is! a good website that could help you is www.clitical.com it doesn't just deal with the physical side of masturbation and sex but the emotional side of things. it's mainly for girls although there is a section for guys if anyone else is interested lol! there are even some erotic stories to help with masturbation.
hope i could help u!
2006-08-01 12:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course girls masturbate but guys just talk about it more masturbation for a woman is more of a sensual thing it not like plucking a chicken as the guys do. Sorry Guys....
2006-08-01 11:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would guess some do and some don't... depending on how busy you are!
Masturbation is a good way for both men and women to explore their bodies and learn what turns them on.... sorry no tips from me, everyone is different, you will just have to expore your own body and decide what it is you like.
I think both men and women enjoy it equally.
2006-08-01 11:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Saccharin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't speak for you girls, but guys need to ejaculate at least once a day to keep there prostate heathy and to minimize the risk of prostate cancer.
as girl tend not to want sex as often as we guys need it, we have no choice but to masterbate or self medicate would be a better way of looking at the problem.
as for should you start to, that depends on you, if you like sex and can not get it as often as you like then "please yourself" however you see fit. either a proper dildo, sex with a guy your own age, or what ever else takes your fancy that you think may be fun. some girls have been know to use all kinds of fruit and veg to masterbate with.
the choice is ultimately yours.
2006-08-01 10:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think masturbating is something u just do when u don't have a partner , it's nice and amusing but not as much as having sex with someone you love or care about ... i know some girls they masturbate coz their partners don't know how to please them the right way ,...
2006-08-01 10:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by travalopesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no alot of girls that do masturbate quite often aswell,they say it is a good wasy to pleasure yourself just before they have sex.
2006-08-01 10:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it better for guys than girls? Not being a girl I wouldn't know. But it is good.
2006-08-01 10:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Michael B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can also use some vegitable or some plastic items which looks like mens.... or u can call me any time we can enjoy.. i can put mine in thier. LOL dont mind
2006-08-01 10:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by jaishankar4202002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋