ok so im guy im 17.. and i was friends with this 17 girl..i really liked her more then a friend since january.. but she said she didnt like me.. i ask her out like 3 times she said know but we still stay as best friends... then in june we got into a fight we stopped talking to like 2 month.. but this weeked i hang out with her .. so we were flirting and we kissed in the lips like a couple of times(we didnt make out).. it seems that she liked it and she want it.. so then that night .. she calls me like drunk not really really drunk.. she told me that she was hanging out with a couple of guys and she hooked up with one.. so i was like okk... then she tell me "im drunk but u know that drunk ppl tell the truth.. so the truth is that i love you i love you and u are the one. inever felt anything likes this before".. so we went on for like 4 hours telling me she loves me and all her life and other guys... so i told her i have a gf thou.. but she was like nooo and blah blah..so i tol her i wou
2006-08-01 03:23:06 · 23 answers · asked by soccer dream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a gf but we are fightiing right now and she isnt talking to me.. and it was true... so the next day .. i talked to the girl that was drunk and i ask her.. so whats the deal with you.. u were drunk and everything and u told me u love me... so do u love me??.. and she said i dont know i dont know.. im confused i do love you but i dont know... so i ask her what are u confused about she said about this guy and you.. and then she said.. but u like ur gf.. and i was like noo coz we are not even talking .. so i told her i was gonna brake up with her.. so i did.. my ex was ok with it coz she was mad and i was too amd cooz she cants trust me..... soo no i told her now there is nothing from stoping me from going out with you u knwo that i still love you and i want to be with you.. so she was lke i need time i need time.. i need to get my feelings straight out....so i told her we have to brake up until i u get ur feeling straight out...whats u guys think abou this. and what should i do??
2006-08-01 03:28:14 · update #1
bla bla bla is right.
2006-08-01 03:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should just ignore her! I was the type who got drunk and talked trash and the next day I would be hating my self although it had some truth in things I would say while intoxicated I believe she's not the type of female you need to pursue at least I was legally drinking if she acts like this at that age you can guarantee she's a good time gal if you know what I mean that isn't worth the commitment!
2006-08-01 03:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehh... seems like you ran out of space... but... here is the thing, it seems to me like you are getting to the point almost where this sort of thing matters... so here is my advice, talk to your friend while she is NOT drunk and see if she still feels the same way. Make it clear to her first that you still love her (if you do) and that way she won't feel quite so exposed.
Then if she loves you and you love her, then you have GOT to dump your girlfriend, and go and try and make somthign work with this woman. Now look your a kid, and so is she so it may not be "the thing" and she may not be "the one" but, life is short, and you don't want to look back with regret and wonder what might have been do you? Take the chance man, worst thing that can happen is you come out of this situation wiser, and if you are lucky you can spend the rest of your life with your best friend.
PS. I am engage to a woman who started out as my best friend and it is truely a gift. - Good Luck.
2006-08-01 03:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Teclis98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, seriously! You need to get away from this chick! She's total trouble.
And no, drunk people don't always tell the truth. You have to KNOW the truth before you can tell the truth. She doesn't know WHAT she wants, and untill she figures it out, she'll keep messing with your head. You don't need that kind of static!
Find a girl with some emotional stability. They're more common than you think!
2006-08-01 03:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta problem that most youngsters who cant spell, have.
First you gotta think.
Do I really want HER.
She's only 17 and there is time yet for you to both go round the houses and come back if nessessary to find each other.
Act cool and next time she rings you and tells you she's with other guys tell her your going to hang up because you think she is just trying to make you jelous and thats not you, then HANG UP>!!
she comes round and says sorry...play COOL. say ok but never again.
she will either show you love and affection or you'll get a big DUMPO!
no bother son....you can then start your second journey round the world and when you come back with the girl of your dreams....rub her nose in it and walk past her with your new gorgeous girl.......RESULT
XX JOEY XX
2006-08-01 03:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by joey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you as bait to feed her ego. In other words: She's playing with your mind. She wants you and then she doesnt want you and then she wants to be friends and then she loves you. What gave me the idea that she's playing with your mind is that she tells you about these guys she's with. Why would she all of a sudden tell you she loves you when everytime you've asked her out, she says no. Wake up!She might like you, but wants to see how far she can take these stupid games of hers. Girls like her, love leading guys on and stepping on them likes bugs.She wants you to get jealous about these other guys. Its good you told her you have a girlfriend, because she probably will regret these games she's playing. Next thing you know she will be on Yahoo Answers asking how to get you back.Dont fall for her trap, you going to get hurt.
2006-08-01 03:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be. You have a g-friend that you are with and she deserve the respect of you not having feelings for another girl while you are with her. If you feel that way. Then let her go so she can meet someone who is man enough not to engage themselves into stupid acts with stupid drunk women.
2006-08-01 03:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by kitty kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brings back memorys for me except the drinking. I was best friends [now my husband ]for 10 yrs. We both liked each other and i was always dating i was afraid to tell my best friend how i felt cause i didn't want to ruin our friendship. so about 2yrs ago at the time i was with my ex and i couldn't stop thinking about my best friend i followed my heart i dumped my ex and went for my best friend even though we were best friends for at the time 8yrs i dont regret it i love him.Follow your heart
2006-08-01 03:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 17, worry more about school and beind a teenager, and less about girls and love. There will be lots of time for all of that after you get done with school.
2006-08-01 03:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by allenlynn23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are just as confused as your drunk girlfriend...good idea if both of you stay away from each other till you both sober up!!!
2006-08-01 03:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need some time off from each other .if she ask about,call,..ect
she really wants you.but dont be the one calling her or chasing.
if she cares let her look for you.
You just need to play a litter bit like u dont care,but dont go too
far.
2006-08-01 03:30:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋