i have 2 ladies that am contacting rite now,
one of them is at my working place, she keeps teasing me all the time, coming to stay in my office, then started calling, sending thousands of sms's, telling me about her self, trying her best to know all that she can about me, getting upset for not sending her sometimes...you knowww..
the other one is an old friend's sis... she started calling me lately, and all of a sudden she is strating to feel bad from certain words, or way of talk'n...telling me about me and ladies, talk'n for hours even though there ain't much to talk about...
so can you tell me, what kind of a relation each of them is looking for....coz am confused....way to confused here...
2006-08-01 03:13:02 · 13 answers · asked by Gossai 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first one sounds too needy and desperate, or possibly just looking for something easy- not a real relationship or anything, and sounds like she needs a lot of attention and wants to be spoiled. The second one sounds like she might have always been interested, and now is getting a little worried and jealous that some other lady is coming into the picture. That's just my take on it.. and I'm a girl, so whatever that is worth to you.
2006-08-01 03:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by xenomorph_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you don't get involved with the girl from work. Its always a bad idea. It seems like the girl from you past just feels comfortable talking to you because you've known her for so long....its possible that their both just looking for a friend. I guess it depends on how you feel
2006-08-01 03:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by summertime_cutie05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like the old friends sis is lookin for a serious relationship where you two can cuddle and have fun and it sounds like the one at the work place is lookin to have sex with you a couple times...then i say she will be after another guy in the work place
2006-08-01 03:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by LiL RiZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - DON"T date in the work place! It often ends BADLY!
Second - Sisters are odd creatures. How good is this friend? If things go badly you could lose your friend.
There are too many women out there - my advice is find someone else. Good luck.
2006-08-01 03:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the girl from ur work if she is not interested in ur money or moving up the ladder
as for the old friend's sis i can understand what she is thinking..i think she just wants someone to love her..she will get over it
2006-08-01 03:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by luvs2play06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both sound interested in you. If you like them back ask them out separately for a date and get to know them better.
2006-08-01 03:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea- don't go out with either of them ....what if you guys get into a relationship and later break up? you don't wanna be seeing her all day do you?
2006-08-01 03:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jenifer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you date the work girl the you proubly will get in trouble becouse thats what happened to my bro and he got fired becouse of her . and the other do you now her ? do you have feelings for her?
2006-08-01 03:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by catherine l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Workplace romance = bad idea.
2006-08-01 03:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls love to talk about themselves actually about anything....so let them chatter. take them both out and decide based on that.
2006-08-01 03:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsay B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋