Why does man only have one thing on their mind?

Question

When a girl walk by them, the first thing they notice, their butt, then after, you know what, why are ALL men having only 1 thing on their mind ? Is any men making any effort at all not to be so visualistic ? Is it a struggle for them, or its more a norm now?

Answer 1

Sorry, but all men battle with the visual stimuli. I have to constantly battle myself. When a girl walks by I keep in mind that I do not have the right to look at her in any way other then one of God's kids. (and He might not like me looking at her like others do)

I like to recommend a book called "Every Man's Battle" It's meant for men, but I've loaned it to women friends, and it helped them understand.

There are other books like Every Teens Battle, Every Woman's battle, etc...

Answer 2

Just as women don't like being put into the same category, men don't either. It is generally true that men are more aesthetically driven when it comes to the opposite sex, but I think culture is changing and many women are just as visually motivated. The male brain is programmed to think about sex a lot, but I've never met a women that doesn't enjoy it either, if anything women seem to get more out of sex than we do.

Yes it's true that uneducated and uncultured people of both sex's spend large amounts of time following buttocks down the street, it is human nature to be driven by unquenchable desire, however, there are millions of men all over the globes suffice that both respect women, and have better things to think about than bouncing body parts, as nice as they may be.

Answer 3

I've heard that the reason why men focus so much on sex and womens' parts is because of their testosterone or some chemical factor in their brains... I know that some physiological factors play into it quite a bit, so it's unfair to totally blame them for thinking that way.

However, we all have thoughts-- it's how we act on those that's important-- self control and respect for women are things that are needed... sure, I think a guy is hot, but I don't sit there, slack-jawed staring at his crotch all day or yell out derogative comments to him.

Some men (not all) are just idiots... unfortunately plain and simple.

Answer 4

For the same reason women leer at men when they're horny.The only difference is women are a little more discreet,not necessarily more decent than men.I've been privy to a few conversations when women get together,and have found that women can be as graphic and/or disgusting as men.Piglets if you will.It's just easier for then to point the finger when they are around other women.

Answer 5

Yes, we are making progress to minimize your issues with our insacable visualistic appitites.
We are energizing all parties involved. Yes the entire gender of man has been contacted as we all seek great solutions to this ulitmate human trait of madness and visual lust. Utilizing everything in which our sociaty allowing all lifeforms to help solve this ugly male trait. We have all gathered and elected leaders. We have meetings in small neighborhood groups, brain storming every part of the issue. Larger groups are starting to gather in huge sporting arenas around the globe.Using high voltage, nuclear powered P A systems allowing our fearless leaders to, God bless their efforts, consoul and teach numbers as high as 70,000 men at one time.
We are also using cover crutches such as sun glasses, stragically placed mirrors, Binoculars, Night Monoculars and high powerd night scopes, just like the one that dude used on Sniper. In addition we are planning bake sales, door to door cookie sales to fund a small area on the space station. In that area we will mount a telescope that will not be noticed by any woman but the scope is assesable around the country thru converted nuclear powered lap tops.
Now really, if we all were looking at your butt thru a telescope mounted on the space station, you shouldn't feel the eye balls soo bad as they burn into your personal clothing.
In short this problem is almost solved.
There are other ideas, that we are were currently working the bugs out of that should have positive effects concerning this matter.
When a man is about to be overcome with your issue, the eye balling visual, he holds his head as still as possible but some huge force with the strength of many horses just pulls your head around, rips the eye lids from your face and ultimately yes, exposing the naked eye with a butt in direct view. It's ugly, this has happened to me a few times. My friend down the block suffered neck injuries from this evil power source raining havoc over men. Young boys seemed to be immuned to this until reaching the age of 3. thats when our eyes are finally able to focus on the entire butt.
I have heard that a boy under two has partial view of a butt ,but really never focus, and can never acheive a full eye ball visualistic view of the butt.

it makes me sad to see our young men suffer soo much, soo early in their little lives.

Answer 6

Why in the world would you expect men to make an effort not to be attracted to women?

In fact if men were not like this, there would no longer be a human race. Live with it.

Answer 7

well if us womens button (if u know what i mean) was rubbing against our closes all day and nite long we probably would be the same way but ours is hidden so we don't have the problem. besides that it is normal for them they are men (and no offense men out there) but when they reach purberty there brains drop from one head to the other and there it pretty much stays till they die. unless there gay lol. just love them and be great ful you have something pretty enough for them to want to look at cuzz not all of us do lol have a good day grandma rosey

Answer 8

I guess when you wear short skirts, tall shoes, paint your face and have nice hair, and pump up your breasts, you don't want men to look huh? Get real. If you don't want men to look at you, look frumpy. I work with a lot of women engineers who might as well be men in the way they carry themselves. Rest assured, they are sitting alone in their apartments at night probably wondering why they aren't getting any.

Answer 9

People have three things on their minds at all times.

1. Eat
2. Sleep
3. Screw

We're all programmed to look for the next available one of these.

Answer 10

its evolution my dear. in the wee hours of man, we didn't have really any technology so life was harder. the guy who favored the better butt would get a stronger woman who was more able to defend the young against predators. the guy who wanted bigger boobs was more likely to get a girl who had enough body fat to get her through times of lesser food. there are many more of these, like wider hips mean less complication at birth, etc...
the guy who was always looking out for this had a better chance of finding it. that is the reason my dear.