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me and my bf have been off and on for 7 yrs and we finally got back together after 3 yrs.. and we have been together for almost 3 months.. before we got together we were always on the phone together and now i call him and he tells me he will call me back and he never does and i ask him why and he says because he hates talkin on the phone but his brother told me he is always on the phone wit other ppl.. what should i do?

the reason we r off and on is because we lose contact and stuff and i would move or his number changes.. but everytime we see each other we get back together

2006-08-01 02:57:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

and we never break up we just lose contact so we always just keep going out i grew up wit him and his family and its weird cuz i have never been "jus a friend" to him it was always us dating.. so i wouldnt kno how to react as jus a friend

2006-08-01 03:16:21 · update #1

7 answers

It sounds like you both don't have enough going on to talk about on the phone. I'd suggest keeping the phone conversations to a minimum and actually stepping up doing things in person together..you need more of a life together than talking about it.

2006-08-01 03:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I feel sorry for you but my advice is open your eyes cause hes controling you,and he want to make sure that he owns you.everytime he will see you date another guy he will show up and saying that he want you back and that he is very sorry for what he had done to you but it will be the same as before when you will be with him for few month.So girl you need to be strong and go out ,have fun ,date other guy until you find the right one.
control your mind on something else and stop making him control you,cause you are better then that and you need someone better who love you for who your are and give you all the love you need,and next time he will try to take you back you will be ready to kick his bu....so good luck

2006-08-01 03:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by none 5 · 0 0

Well, if his brother is telling the truth, then you bf is lying. I think all you can do is talk to your bf and ask him firmly to explain why he doesn't call you back.

2006-08-01 03:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Steiner 7 · 0 0

well you have to loke at him in the eye and ask him ''do i still like you'' and if he says yes ask him why he dont call you but if he says no yust say its ok and the you walk away and have a change in you life ok

2006-08-01 03:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dragonguy 1 · 0 0

well you was bf/gf since you was like 9? hmmm guess so...I,d hold off till you got a little older!!...Good Luck!

2006-08-01 03:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by outback 4 · 0 0

SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HES JUST KEEPING YOU ON THE SIDE FOR EMERGENCIES

2006-08-01 03:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 2 · 0 0

good luck girl

2006-08-01 03:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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