if you have sex very early in a new relationship, will the guy never really take you seriously?
2006-08-01 02:42:48 · 41 answers · asked by samantha d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just go with the flow. There's no set time for anything. If it feels right do it. If not move on. Don't live by those silly rules or you may miss out on something good.
2006-08-01 02:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by mathew m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving a guy a kiss on a first date is when u know it might not even last but giving it a few more dates can show that person that ure not so easy although u never really know..?And having sex too early is not good at all believe me its a sign of a not a good beginning keep it steady only with some kisses until u know him good enough maybe about a month or more...
2006-08-01 02:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 dates
2006-08-01 02:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by slotta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows your immaturity and lack of experience. If you can decide and control the timing then that is not a real life rather movie. Only in the movies director can decide when to kiss and when to be laid & so on. In reality all should come spontaneously, may be it happen at the very first minute of the first date OR may take several dates. Depending on how you both made for each other. I would say if you get the kiss at the very first minute your relationship must be stronger and both are made for each other.
2006-08-01 03:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's never really a too late or a too soon to kiss someone whilst dating them. It depends on what feels right for you both. Don't just jump on him, but if it's a two way thing then that's fine. As for the sex, again it's not exactly something that just one of you does. You both play a part in it so if he's any kind of man then he shouldn't treat you any differently to if you hadn't, if he does he's not worth it. Just make sure you know what you want and stay with it.
2006-08-01 02:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by MIM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's when you feel comfortable. My current boyfriend of 3 years and I kissed and we weren't on a date, we met at our mutual friends wedding and we slept together within a week of meeting each other. But I would say that this is an exception and not very likely in any situation. Really, kissing on the first date is fine, though it could speed everything up, but sex early in a relationship can usually kill it. I had one previous relationship that it did.
2006-08-01 02:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by catlike curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will know when the time is right. a kiss is only a small sign of affection its not like ur sleepin with em on the first date (big no no) just take it slow n get 2 know each other before u jump in the sack I have a 3 month rule on that. but a kiss actually I do not mind kissing on the first date kind of lets me know if there is a spark there or not. hope I helped lol good luck
2006-08-01 02:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, on third date is the right time to kiss the guy. Not too soon and not too late. I'm an expert on dating, lately, now I always trust webdate*com in finding the perfect girl.
2006-08-04 23:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by edz1624 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't take you seriously. You should have sex when you feel like it. If you are with a guy 1-5 times and feel it is time do it. If you need more time wait.
There is no set rule with guys, (me), but if I care about you I will try not to rush things. I don't want to be thinking "damn I hit that the first time...how many others have?" And no we don't believe that it was your first time to surrender to the moment...
If you are Ms right, we will wait, if you are MS Right Now, we won't.
2006-08-01 02:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Marshal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to receive some very questionable answers!! There are many people who "play" with sex. To them it is as natural as breathing. It holds little importance in terms of spirituality , committment,seriousness, etc. IF you kiss and IF you have sex are totally up to you. I truely hope you are not taking a poll on this fun, but certainly SILLY site, in order to decide what you should do.
2006-08-01 02:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First kiss... Hmmm. I'd say the 2nd date would be a good time. It doesn't have to be a make-out session. You could give him a peck on the cheek. The best thing to do is go slowly.
Now, having sex very early WILL ruin it. You don't want to rush things. :)
2006-08-01 02:46:36 · answer #11 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋