me and my best friend(girl) that i was in love with got into a fight 2 month ago with me.. we stoped talking and she knew i loved her but she told me to stop talkkingt bc she said i was a jerk when i wasnt so we didint talk anymore and she broke my heart.. now not to long ago we hang out again we kissed not maked out .. i kissed and the lips and she was alright with it.. so then she calls me at night drunk after hanging with a couple she just hooked up with. saying that SHE LOVES ME REALLY LOVES AND I WAS THE ONE anand she ask me to go out with her while she was drunk. she even told me that drunk ppl say the truth... no the next we are still out .. and i ask her so whats the deal u were drunk and u told me u love me .. so do u really love me??.. and she was like i dont know i dont know. i do love u but i dont know. so i told her i can brake up with my gf so we can both go out and she said.. so i broke up with her and all soo she can go out with me. but she said give me time and ****.
2006-08-01 02:42:03 · 14 answers · asked by soccer dream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
soo i told her we cant go out untill she get her feelings straight out. i mean i already broke up with my other gf to be with her... so idk what u guys think i mean... i really do lover her...should i just wait.. give me tips so idont look desperate
2006-08-01 02:46:18 · update #1
just so u guys know.. we are 17 i we were best friends for like 8 month i had a crush on her since the 5th month... we talked on the phone almost everysingle day during the 8th month period.. i just think we have something in common.. and when she was drunk she told me... when im sober i cant accepted but i do love you...well and why was she confused.. she told me she was confused bc she likes this other she hook up thats treats her bad.. so i ask her y u like this guy if he treats u bad... she said idk... and about my ex gf.. we werent talking for two days bc she was at me bc she cant trust me.. it was better to brake it off in the first place and she ok with me and we are cool..
2006-08-01 03:02:18 · update #2
maybe drunk people tell the truth but u can't expect her to be drunk all the time :) so do ya think u might have a serious relationship with her?
you're the only one who can know these things. is she too shy to tell you she cares for you?
do you have anything in common? do you like just talking to each other?
is she worth waiting for?
if after thinking bout these you decide she's worth it, then just go for it and give it a try, who knows...
if not, look around you.. love might be closer than you think
2006-08-01 02:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by lady xanax 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you keep her drunk, she may give you some answers....what kind of relationship would that be. If your best friends, you would already be talking about this and working it out. My best friends are pretty honest, we have wonderful communication, that is how we became best friends, getting to know each other, talking to each other, openly and honestly. Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants, is confused and maybe not mature enough to make a good decision.
2006-08-01 03:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by debbyboop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like shes confused too.... I wish you luck with that but as for the you tell the truth when your drunk thing i'm not to sure about that..I think sometimes it is because lots of times when your drunk you have more courage...but maybe she just really cares about you and since she was drunk she wasnt really thinking and said that without much thought..give her time but of course don't put your life on hold for a real long time unless you know its for real.. but i hope ya'll get together i think its cool when best friends get together like that....
2006-08-01 02:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you had a gf all along, and as soon as someone else tells you they want you, not to mention while under the influence of alcohol, you dump your gf, that's not cool and your payback is being left empty handed...this best friend likes you...but isn't sure she can love you the way she wants to love a guy....either give it a go and prove she can or let her decide if she can't and get over her...
2006-08-01 02:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her tell her to tell you the truth already and stop being a jerk sorry but you should just tell her if she is telling you to not go out with anyone because shes jealous or what. Just do whats best for you
2006-08-01 02:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Vanessa. S.*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No friend would ever tell you she loves you while you're dating somebody else. I'm assuming you're young (esp. her) cos this is so immature. (Not you, her). You've done the right thing to break up with your ex cos you were liking this chick. The girl you like, do give her time, don't act desperate and she'll sort herself out.
2006-08-01 02:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well oyu already broke up with your other girlfriend....if she called you drunk and said all that stuff how do oyu know when you are together that she wont call up some other random guy and say all that stuff.....i would try to move on.....
2006-08-01 02:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by LiL RiZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you do such a thing?i guess you deserve this after what u did to your g/f for someone who is just fooling around with you!!
trust me this girl is just using you n trying to mess around with ur present relationship,infact shes managed to do soooo,just get her out of you way!!
2006-08-01 02:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay this is not good at all.
she is not sure of wat she wants to do and she's making it hard for you to move on because she does things that bring your hopes up.
and then she does something that have you questioning her actions.
it's not good when someone says something and their actions show differently.
You have to let her go. Most likely she come running back but you have to stand your ground and tell her wat you want. and if she's still not giving you a straight answer then let her go.....
2006-08-01 02:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by GDK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor you, forget about this girl and move on, she sounds like a confused problematic person and you can definately find someone better if you just move on and stop thinking about her.
2006-08-01 02:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by gpetit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋