2006-08-01 02:35:57 · 34 answers · asked by millah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you want to have sex just to have sex or do you want to have sex with someone you love? I say if its just to have sex then dont do it, you'll only regret it. If its with someone you love, make sure this guy is worth it.
2006-08-01 02:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by chlobug26 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whether you should wait depends on why you want it so bad. Do you want sex to be close to somebody? That's not likely to help because you end up being close to somebody and the only connection is the sex. Do you want sex to fill a hole deep down inside you? It wo't fill the hole for very long. If, on the other hand, you want sex because you feel safe and secure and loving and protected and comfortable with the guy, it may be time.
2006-08-01 02:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can suggest is that you just go to a quiet place somewhere and just think about it... I dont think any of us can really tell you whether you should or shouldn't do something. Especially something this big of an event in your life. I am 19 and I am still a virgin...not because I am waiting though, just because...well...it just hasn't happened yet. I have talked to many people about this very topic and they all have told me that it was not worth it and if they could go back and change it they would have waited for marriage. I do not think I am going to wait until marriage, but you never know...anything can happen....Well enough about me....
Good luck...
2006-08-01 02:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you of legal age go for it. Get on the pill and use a condom. Also have sex for the right reasons, and want to have it, don't just give in to pressure for the sake of it.
Trust me, no guy really wants a virgin wife unless they are themselves a virgin. Virgins are usually useless in bed because they have no experience or practice. Sex is like anything else, it is a skill that must be learned, and it is best learned through practice.
2006-08-01 02:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u haven't already just wait. sex is highly over rated. U can ask anyone. I wish i waited cuz it wasn't a big deal. i don't know y u wanna do it but if u are going to do something anyway just get a toy. seriously cuz sex can wait.
2006-08-01 02:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mizz007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, u should wait. This aint like takin yo first sip o gin n cranberry, it's........i cant really explain it, but you should wait 4 that rite guy, just like im waitin 4 that right gal. Plus, theres a lotta stds out there n u should watch out 4 them, dont just get it on wit any guy u meet cause, i aint judgin u or anything, but, u mite cause u want it so bad.
4 now there always ur left n right hand..........what? everybody does it.
2006-08-01 16:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ace-Balla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to have sex because you are horny. Wait for the right person & make sure you don't regret it!
2006-08-01 02:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is that you should wait until you feel you're with the right guy and not because of curiosity, because it makes such a big difference when you do it with someone you have feelings for.
2006-08-01 02:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nanci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the implications of making this decision. Are you ready, are you prepared to have a baby, are you ready to get STD's or Aids?Is this a person who honors and respects you? Will he be there for you in case any of the above happens?
2006-08-01 02:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by debbyboop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, wait until you're married. For moral reasons and common sense reasons.
2006-08-01 02:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by irishharpist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋