My friend Spencer is dating this girl...
and he wants to know way to find out if she loves him, without asking her directly.
I couldn't answer his question since i'm always pretty direct and owuld just ask her...soooo...Any suggestions for poor Spencer?
2006-08-01 02:33:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wouldn't be fair to her if he doesn't love her. If he does love her then the best way to find out if she is in love with him is to tell her that he loves her. If he doesn't then he should not attempt to ask. It would just cause her to think that he is in love with her and cause her heart ache if she were to tell him yes and then not receive it in return. I am a mother of 3 girls and I have instilled in them that the man should always say it first. It really makes sense. Men usually have a harder time admitting it and can get scared off pretty easily if the truth of the woman's feelings are revealed too soon. Many times they feel it but are scared to admit it. So if he loves her he should just tell her. He may end up with a little heart ache or be wonderfully surprised with her returned love. If she doesn't at least he will have his dignity and be on his way to becoming a mature man. It's a hard step but he needs to learn how to express his feelings before he can expect a girl to. Tell him good luck for me please. I think this is sweet. God bless you for helping your friend.
2006-08-01 02:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spencer shouldn't be wasting his time pondering sum silly like that.If 1 likes sum1,they need 2 wise up & ask the person they like straight up whether they like them or not.Life's 2 short:1 gotta do what 1 gotta do.Besides,when u luv sum1,it's in the things that r said & done.The simplest little things r what really count.
2006-08-01 09:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Spencer the only way to really know how she feels is to ask her. Other than that, she may just tell him. If she doesnt tell him, maybe he can tell from how she acts. But the only way to know is to talk or ask her.
2006-08-01 09:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by lacia2159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i completely agree with you there cannot be a better way to ask her so.....and explain to him that's always better to communicate,the more you talk the more clear and peaceful you will be and instead you assuming and imagining things its best to talk to her straight ,tell her your feelings and get to know hers!!
2006-08-01 09:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves her... then just tell him to tell her that he loves her and see what she says... or after he kisses he should b able to tell by looking in her eyes
2006-08-01 09:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he drive tell him to open the door for her if she bends over and open his door from her side she loves him.
2006-08-01 09:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by mega_2424 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the way that she acts around him and hte look in her eyes when she looks in his eyes.....remember eyes tell no lies
2006-08-01 09:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by LiL RiZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you find out if she likes him.
2006-08-01 09:40:09 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"DOH!"
2006-08-01 09:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by akar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋