I met this lady on the plenty of fish site, i fell in love and it turned out she was married. She is gay but not out of the closet yet, Is there any possible way i can help her, now she is gonna try and work it out with her husband, but i know how it will turn out. The only reason she is doing this is cause she is afraid of comming out. I myself am a lesbien and have been one for 13 years. She did lie to me though. She told me after six weeks that she was married. This was after the fact that i fell for her. THis is the reason i havent dumped her either.
NOw she is pushing me away. I know for a fact that i made her feel what she never felt before. Help
2006-08-01 02:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by lulubellhatfield 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has everything im looking for in a woman, i love her ways! she has a good heart, and a beautiful smile, she makes me feel so good to be around her. I do truly love her. My only fear is that she wont leave her husband when she sees it wont work out...for fear of being gay.
2006-08-01 02:56:53 · update #1
Leave her alone. She is married. You never should have messed with her to begin with. She made a mistake, now she is trying to fix it.
2006-08-01 02:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first I will say the standard u really should not step inbetween married people no matter what. u need 2 move on she is apparently someone who does not have any problems in cheating on another person, do u honestly think u would fair any better with her. ya I know she told u she is unhappy, she is not interested in her husband, she is a les whatever it still boils down 2 she is a cheat.
and a coward if she would rather stay in an unhappy relationship than 2 stand up n be a woman about her ****.
good luck
2006-08-01 02:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave married people alone..i'd say that too but u said you didnt know she was married until after 6 weeks.. but honestly i dont really think you should mess with her anymore let her be with her husband...personally i dont think bein gay is the best thing in the world but its a free country right but go find sum1 who doesnt have a husband and have fun while you can... u could try a guy maybe you'll like that least he wont have a husband haha..less hes gay too
2006-08-01 02:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by dixie_gurl872005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her shoes, how would YOU handle the situation??? Would you leave the man you married for a fling, (or actual relationship), with a woman that you really don't know all that much about???
Just think about it from HER side of it, and go from there!!
I say that you need to move on with your life, don't dwell on something that will never be, even YOU can see that, can't you???
Good Luck!!!
2006-08-01 02:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by luvsbjs_418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am going through the same thing but with a married man (I am not gay) and all I can say is just have fun but don't expect to much...she is married
2006-08-01 03:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lady B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after the 6 weeks, she told you she was married. is when you should of left her alone. shes trying to stay with her family. So let her be, get over it.
2006-08-01 02:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and check the plenty of fish site. im sure there are loooots of other fishes there...AND FRESHER.
2006-08-01 02:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by keberkoh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, she is going to have to do this on her own.
2006-08-01 02:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave married people alone
2006-08-01 02:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Eva Daniel Rn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have fun with her...but dont expect her to leave her husband..she wont.
2006-08-01 02:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by ashutosh s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋