I have so much anxiety . I am always wondering what people are doing if they aren't with me. This guy I have been dating for a while didn't call me for 2 days we usually speak everyday and we were suppose to go out 2 days in a row and he cancelled. WTF! Now i'm ready to just stop dealing with him cuz my mind is telling me he's no good, but he is the nicest person. this is just out of the ordinary! He always calls me and wants to see me. is there funny business going on or was he just occpuied with his car like he said. LOL the car is new. I hate when people try to play me for a fool.
2006-08-01 02:32:05 · 15 answers · asked by Mizz007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Calm down.
Just go over and try to spend sme time with him. It has only been two days. Sometimes if you are going through some trouble, you may need time to yourself. He may not have told you, because he didn't want you to think that it was something else, but it seemed to have been the opposite effect. Try to talk to him, because I really don't think he was cheating. If he has been a great boyfriend keep him. But if you want to lose him, just because he hasn't seen you in two days, that's your problem. I just don't want to see you lose someone that has been good to you in you life.
2006-08-01 02:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to open up and talk straight out to him,tell him how you feel and what you are thinking ask him to help you with your anxiety about this situation and when he says he is going to call he should call,we usually have a pretty good gut instinct about this kind of thing,if you really think he is up to no good throw him to the curb life is too short.
2006-08-01 02:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cmon keep doubt of a good relationship like this.okay.
Doubting wont help gal or it will always put you in trouble.
JUST trust him baby girl at this stage ,cuz in a good relationship you got to trust each other . Not untill you see it happening the wrong way, then you may take actions your self.Ask him,if you dont understand anything.okay thats the best.
2006-08-01 02:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by Disy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just hate that too. You really need to listen to your gut. But you also need to stop being so uptight about it.
Maybe you need some counseling to deal with your anxiety. That could be scaring him away. You need to be a confident person and have great self esteem in this world.
Good luck!
G.G.
2006-08-01 02:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,you are too sensitive,don't take everything personally!!
trust him if you love him and when you too know that he is nice,right?don't think unnecessary things to worsen things for your self and the best thing for you is to confide in him,tell him how you've been feeling about the whole thing and trust me if he is genuine he'll help you get out of this or else if you are just not able to trust him,just move on!!
2006-08-01 02:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you know u can't be judgemental. wat you can do is when the next time some plan is cancelled, you make another plan with your girlfriends(specifically becoz a girls nightout is very soothing at such times)...and the next day just get in touch with him and talk as if "it really doesn't matter to you whether he came or not"...and discuss more about how you spent the night with your friends!!! He's surely in for a suprise....coz he wud be expecting you shout or fight with him.This Definately Works!!!! TRY IT!
2006-08-01 02:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 10:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear
just listen to me most of the relations through the net is not right about 99.9 are not correct so i am older than you and know more better in life most of the egyptians are nice and sweet people not just him men women even kids are lovely so please change your mind and back to the right thinking i advice you
i think you still young tell me how old are you please
best regards
2006-08-01 02:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by elsheriftours 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be either...he could be working on the car or he could be trying to play you.....but i would just sit down and talk to him about it an see whats up
2006-08-01 02:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by LiL RiZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you like a violin. Move on!
2006-08-01 02:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋