Sometime ago, I stated my love to a girl. Then, I know that she loved me, too. Now, the problem is her parents. They are so hard and prohibit their daughter to have a bf. The girl always obey her parents. So, she refuses to be my gf, even I ask her to do it behind her parents. I can do nothing, coz her parents are so stubborn. Impossible for me to change their mind. Would you please, give me any suggestions??
2006-08-01 01:56:31 · 14 answers · asked by Lucky 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry Dude!I'm a DAD myself, you should back off, respect her parents wishes, and be her friend. Sooner or later they may come around and let it be,if you can wait that long, your a good guy.If you can't than you just prove their point.As a father, I don't want my daughters to go through all that drama at such a young age, no need to have all that stress for no reason. Good luck
2006-08-01 02:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to wait for her that is if you are willing and tell her you are doing this because of your love for her, maybe her parents prohibit her from having a girlfriend because they want her to concentrate much on some things like her studies. Maybe love can wait, but be sure she is worth waiting for.
2006-08-01 09:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by princess amire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the girl really, then respect her decision and show her that, no matter whatever her and her parents decisions are, you are ready to accept her every way.
Every parents has their wish and rule regulations. If you can not understand that, then you are not worth enough for that girl. Leave her alone and find some other girl for yourself.
2006-08-01 09:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends, maybe when she gets older her parents will loosen up. DON"T go behind their backs, it will just lessen their trust more when (yes when) they find out. You have NO power over her parents, but try to make a good impression. Be very sweet to them and don'tbe all clingy to your girl when they are there, maybe even when their not.
2006-08-01 09:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't blame the parents. with a lot of ******* out there who only whats to screw their daughter and leave her after. try being friendly with the parents first. visit her at there house to show that your intentions are true... if everything seems ok... then your in luck... But if they don't really like you then... boy go find yourself another girl.
2006-08-01 09:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by little_devil501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being friends and friends only for a while. Maybe if her parents get to know you and you prove to them that you are not a bad guy, they'll change their minds. Good luck.
2006-08-01 09:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cultivate friendshhip with the parents. Be good to them and try to be close. Invite them to your gatherings and parties. Remember them on holidays. Later on the parents will even vote for you and put good words for you to their daughter. This works.
2006-08-01 09:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by cherox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot befriend her parents and if she will alwys obey her parents...then its better to drop that wish from your mind!!
2006-08-01 09:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send SMS to her parent that u love her daughter & she also love you. & You r comming to meet her outside their housein a car with pistol. if u dont allow her to come to me in your presence u will fire pistol on self & make suside in front of them
2006-08-01 09:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and find your self a other girl
2006-08-01 09:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋