I want to break up with him. But he keep telling me that he will just go off..meaning die bcos he did alot of things based on my love. He keep tellin me that he loves me n he cant live without me. I dont know whether to believe him on this. Im so scared to leave him..if anything happens to him i wont forgive myself. I just dont love him like i should. I care about him but I dont think so its meant to be. I have been telling him this but he refused to listen!! I cant stand his temper, he is very weird..he has his own way of thinking..he doesnt really show love to me..I want to feel loved..not just told to that i'm loved!! Should I just ignore him and let him be?
2006-08-01 01:32:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave. Leave fast. Call his parents and tell them he is suicidal and upset. Have nothing else to do with him.
2006-08-01 01:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be. If you want the relation anymore, go ahead leave him. That's a lame reason for you not to break up with him. Commiting suicide? I donn't know. I believe he will not do it. Maybe he will just drink something that will make you think that he's done it. No. Don't believe him. Don't feel guilty. After all that will be his decision, not yours. My concern is, if being with this weird guy for a long time, you might end up commiting suicide. He's bluffing. He He
2006-08-01 08:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by abet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, I'd call his parents and tell them or some of his close friends. His problems are not your responsibility. Even if he chooses to kill himself, it's still not your fault. He's an adult. However, I do think he needs professional help if he is talking like that, maybe you should recommend that too, but definitely tell his family and friends about the suicidal stuff, that way they can watch him. If you can, try talking him into getting some type of counseling! Good luck!
2006-08-01 08:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you feel he needs to go get some help. Give him some phone numbers of people he can call. You cannot stop him if that is what he is going to do. Tell him how you feel and that you're ending the relationship. Then...move on. You must cut contact with him though. Being his "friend" will only make it harder on him.
2006-08-01 08:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a note with some pills, a knife, a gun and some bullets. Thats his bad, not yours. Just make sure he don't come for you in the night. Or day...whatever. Keep people around you all the time until you eventually don't hear about him anymore. If he ends up killing himself don't blame yourself because thats just stupid thoughts.
2006-08-01 08:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a b/f who thought about killing himself a lot. i realy loved him and i cared more about him than anything or anyone else in the world. i never wanted to break up with him, but we did. he did it, but that doesnt answer ur question. sorry. i think u should call his parents or who ever he lives with and tell them whats going on and confront them with ur problem. they will talk to him about it and he will calm down. u said u wanted to feel loved...everyone does. the perfect guy is right there...just look.
2006-08-01 08:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a HUGE sign of a potentially abusive relationship. Telling the partner that you will kill yourself. It's all a power game, walk away. Telling him and he doesnt listen, he hears you , he just doesnt care.
and if he decides to kill himself, that's his issue. You cant take care of everyone in the world. His manipulation has gone far enough.
2006-08-01 08:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be blackmailed into having a relationship with someone.....it sounds like you need to break it off for good in a pleasant but firm way. Cue a relative or close friend of his about your decision and concerns. He needs their help not yours.
2006-08-01 08:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by Seagoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you have found some thing in him that you can love him for, try to talk to him again , try to persuade him with your thoughts , ideas about love, if he could not understand or achieve , he will then ask to leave.
2006-08-01 08:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by semsem T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sure that u havethe right to be loved as the way that make ur heart always fast beatttting . ur breathhhh is hot and always want to see ur lover
do it girl just break up b4 u broke up
2006-08-01 08:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by sherbions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋