My boyfriend is being super crazy and horny lately, he keeps harassing me about giving it up, I don't want to look like a hoe because I've only been dating him for 2 months, Should I have sex with him??? Because he's really nice and a special person
2006-08-01 01:29:46 · 19 answers · asked by Elitist, much? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should give it up while someone still wants it, most likely you're probably a bit overweight, and you're not going to find love if you break up with this guy. Chances is if you give it up and he does break up with you, He'll tell other guys about you, and they'll want to date you. Keep it open like Walmart.
2006-08-01 01:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Elitist, much? 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
HEAR this if you hear nothing else. Nice and special people do not, (repeat DO NOT) "act super crazy and horny and keep harassing" others and they certainly do not harass someone they love. You won't look like a hoe to "give it up" but you do need to think about this relationship. A guy who harasses a girl doesn't stop when she gives in--he goes on to the next thing and harasses some more.
2006-08-01 08:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about it? If you feel like you're being pressured, then I say DO NOT do it. You should want this as much as he does. Be careful, you might go ahead with this, then he's gone. Seen it happen many times. If he is special to you and you to him, he will wait until you are ready. Your virginity is a very special thing that should be given up to someone you are truly in love with and that you know feels the same about you. Someone who truly loves you wouldn't put that kind of pressure on you and would respect your wishes to wait. So keep your legs closed and if he moves on to the next, then you'll know you did the right thing.
Please think with you brain on this one. Once your virginity is taken, you will never get it back.
2006-08-01 08:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont have sex with him. Only do that when you are completly ready, not because someone tells you to. Trust me, save your virginity for someone special who you believe you will be with forever. He doesnt seem to really care about you, or respect you if he is hounding you about losing it. Perhaps you should sit down and talk with him about priorities. Let him know that you want someone to love you for you, not for sex. He seems to be wanting just the sex if he is hounding you and you have only been with him fo 2 months. Tell him that you dont want to get serious and make a wrong decision. Because making a decision to lose your virginity just to please someone will most likely, be the wrong choice. Only have sex when you want to and you feel ready. It doesnt matter how special and nice someone may be, they could just be putting on a show to get with you. Wait until you know someone who honestly cares about you and you love. When you do decide to lose your virginity, wear a condom. Dont be dumb and think you cant get pregnant, because everything is possible. Wear a condom the whole time as well because precum can get you pregnant and you can get STDs from it. So be safe.
2006-08-01 08:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by lacia2159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up your values just because he's really a nice and special person... they are all nice when they haven't touched you yet. Give it up when you truly feel that you're ready and that you won't regret it. If he goes with the Line like ... If you love me you'll give it to me...just answer him the same way..."if you love me.. you'll respect my decision. 2 months is way too early to give up your virginity... think before you act.
2006-08-01 08:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by little_devil501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold up if he is a really nice person and speacial he wouldn't be pressuring you into giving it up. DOnt give in because if you do you will find out that all he wanted was a piece of you and thats it but if he can hold off for you then he becomes the speacial person
2006-08-01 08:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by shycountryboy85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've to decide what is imp for u...virginity or to enjoy with ur friend? If u r concious abt u virginity then give him up & if u r not willing to remain virgin anymore then go ahead & have fun.....
If u choose ur virginity & if the boy is a good friend of urs, he'll not let u go...he'll love u more than b4...
2006-08-01 08:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Aum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was a nice guy, he would not be pressuring you for sex. He's a jerk. He will dump you as soon as he tags you.
Two months is not anywhere near long enough to be together.
2006-08-01 08:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by sahel578 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you have to write this question it already admits you are not ready. If he is a special person he will wait!
2006-08-01 08:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Scott M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to then DON'T! It's that simple. I don't believe in waiting but that is just my opinion. It's your body and your life so you have to make the call.
2006-08-01 08:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋