Ok. So I met this guy through a friend. He's really nice and we get along well. I only got to hang out with him once. I don't think it is heading anywhere more so because I spoke with him on the phone the other night for over and hour and we had lots to talk about but he started to mention this girl he likes at work and how he isn't sure where it might be headed but he hopes she chooses him over another guy. I am all for being friends with him but then he wants to get together for drinks later this week. I am probably just thinking way to into this but I have no idea if he is interested or just wants to stay friends cause the guy that i met him through thinks otherwise but also doesn't know about the coworker. What do you all think? I don't want to star tto develop feelings if I know it is only going to bea friendship.
2006-08-01 01:11:58 · 9 answers · asked by rhody07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is cool and being just friends would be great. I just want to make sure that I'm not being oblivious to anything.
2006-08-01 01:21:16 · update #1
It sounds like he's keeping his options open. Maybe he wanted to tell you he's interested, but not looking for a serious relationship. I'd say go have drinks with him and see where things could lead. Just keep it casual and don't daydream about him until you've had a chance to see how he treats you. If he starts to seem interested, just ask him what happened to the girl at his job. Don't be played, but don't give up yet. Good luck. Hope things work out for you.
2006-08-01 01:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you have is a friend. He's talking to you about other women so your not really in the picture for being anything more. Just hang with him as a friend and keep your eyes open. Ya never know maybe at some point his feelings will change.
2006-08-01 01:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like at first he is seeing you as a friend, If he wanted more then he would not have said anything about the other girl, It sounds like he is seeing you as a free piece, I would not get together with him, because he said he wanted another girl and if he is willing to go out on her what makes you think he won't do it to you ???
forget him , and this is from a guy , There are really good guys out here.
2006-08-01 01:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants 'co-worker' and prolly wants you on the side. From the way you set that up anyway, thats what it sounds like. Either that or he considers you a very close 'depending on how long you've known eachother' friend. My best advice would be to just simply ask him yourself but make sure you're not expecting it to lead anywhere. By the inflection in your voice you might scare him off.
2006-08-01 01:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just be friends!!! If it turns into something else, great. Otherwise, you'll have a nice friendship with someone that feels comfortable talking to you about anything. Don't push it. If the attraction is there and it is meant to be, then it will be. Don't push it. Go with the flow.
2006-08-01 01:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's fascinated in you! he appears like extremely a participant. because he develop into hitting on you and then your chum and at the same time as he realized your chum wasn fascinated he's lower back to you! he mighy educate to be gud! ought to correctly be he likes you!
2016-11-27 05:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay as friends. Maybe he just wants a woman's opinion.
2006-08-01 01:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to know each other.. U need to spend more time with each other to understand your feelings..
2006-08-01 01:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by susan m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agreed with susan
2006-08-01 01:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by sundeep2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋