Men may do this too but most of the time it seems to be women complaining about boredom. If your bored after a couple of weeks, months, years then wouldn't it be better to just stay single?
2006-08-01 01:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by DialM4Speed 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mr. Chivalry says,"It is noble for a woman to admit it and try to keep the flame going. Typically, it is the responsibility of the man to keep the flame going. But instead of a woman complaining, she does something about it. Nice. It is true that a relationship can get into a routine, simply because both parties can enter a comfort zone. This is a dangerous zone, and can do damage to the relationship. But the fact that someone tries to do something about it and resuscitate things shows that he/she cares, which should prompt the other partner to want to do the same. But that might not always be the case. Those trying to save the relationship from "boredom" or "routine" have my utmost respect."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-01 08:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not spice things up w/ the same guy? Why do u guys like 2 stay in the rut; yet go to other women for spicing up. Spice up the one ur with. By the way, u guys maintain & have more excitement w/ ur cars & dogs than w/ the women in ur lives. I actually heard of a wife who noticed how well her husband immediately treated the dog; so, she behaved as the dog did; he got the point & their marriage changed for the better.
Relationships r not destinations. They're road trips. Both must maintain the relationship...it takes 2, guys. Improvement is a good thing.
2006-08-01 08:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by karaokecatlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always good to spice up a relationship, exspecially one that has been going on for a couple of years. keeps the relationship stronge, exciting, and drama free. if you always went to the same movies, resturant, ect. it gets old after a while. if your girl only had sex in one position for a year hello but wouldnt you get bored of it. i would. and no it is not better to just rake up and get someoen else. just b/c your girl wants to do diffrent things does not mean she is tired of you, it means she wants more wth you to be with you for a very long time. think of it in a good way not a bad way liek most men think of it.
2006-08-01 08:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by debella201 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
morally not wright
I don't know why us women are like that.
I am like that about everything.
Someone once told me it was because one does not have inner peace.
I always find myself wondering why I am like that. Just think if we weren't we would have a lot more money.We wouldn't feel the need to buy new things all the time. Cars, carpet,clothes,furniture,new hair style you name it.Maybe that's why we have men in our life's to always tell us what we don't need.Ha Ha like that matters!
2006-08-01 08:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by top momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like to "spice things up" too. It goes both ways.
2006-08-01 08:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because routine is boring
2006-08-01 08:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, nothing wrong with a little variety to keep the relationship new
2006-08-01 08:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bc woman are insecure. they do this bc they think the man is becoming less interested, not bc they've lost interest.
2006-08-01 08:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my reason to do this would be more to keep my man looking at me and not else where to fulfill his needs
2006-08-01 08:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋