The other day, my son, this guy that ive been seeing and myself were at the store. I went in, and when I came back out, the guy was on the phone with his "homegirl". I mean I have no reason to believe she wasn't his homegirl. I guess she asked him where he was, and he said hanging out with his homegirl (me) and my son. I got offended. Me and him have been kicking it for almost 6 months now, and we've been sleeping together for almost 2. Was I wrong?
2006-08-01 00:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by younggb77 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No - he lumped you into the same "category" as she is, making you his "Homegirl" & not his girlfriend. If you have a talk with him about this & let him know how you feel, & he still doesn't understand or get it, then it might be time for you to move along. It sounds to me like he's a player & has a whole lot more going on than you've been led to believe over the past 6 months. You were right to get offended & if he can't understand that, then he needs to be replaced. Good luck - but stand firm for what you want & what you believe!!
2006-08-01 01:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not expect any loyalties from anyone unless there are firm commitments. Also conform to normal standards behavior during the period of trial and error till firm commit ments are forthcoming. You will never be sorrry.
2006-08-01 07:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it just sometime you need to get upset because you are a couple and he need to be involved with you not on the phone.
2006-08-01 07:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of.... Might be nothing. Ask him and see.
2006-08-01 07:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-08-01 07:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋