Later at about 10:00 i escorted her to her house.She said she is going to sleep.But about 30 munites i was passing by in a car and i saw her outside with some female and male guys.late in the nite what should i do.she lied to me.
2006-08-01 00:32:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Addado!
ask the girl if she didn't admit, wait til u see her again after leaving u just like that day.and go face her in front of her friends!
stop the girl if u could. and if not leave her!
2006-08-01 00:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her if she did sleep well,
if she tells you the truth that is a good sign.
If she start to tell BS and maybe enriches it with details be VERY careful and depending on how you feel about her you can
A) say bye bye and look for a new girl - you cannot risk to trust someone that can lie in such a theatrical way
B) knowing the rules of the game you can play with it in 2 ways - if she did it once and felt safe she could do it twice, so act the same way another time, if you smell the burnt, park around her block and wait, then follow her and with a good camera (film or digital doesn't matter as long as it is extremely sensible to light- you don't wanna be caught flashing like a paparazzi) take pics and keep it there in your closet. At this point you can choose if to enter the same club (or place) where she is and play the extremely disappointed (or angry or whatever you like to play) to see what she will find as a supposed-to-be-believable excuse to justify
OR
Let her find the pics one day after a nice quarrel (where you obviously are supposed to be wrong) and see how she reacts :)
OR
Let her find the pics (as if they were hidden) one day that she comes to your place. If she gets mad tell her that YOU personally shot them and just wanted to see where she would have stopped to tell you faboulous and film-script lies :)
I just wonder if such a girl is worth all this mess :)) but anyway it's just plain fun (apart from the pain of being treated like a rag, obviously) - Don't worry and take the best of every moment in life :) bad things always happens but to know that you can go on and happy is such a great thing!
2006-08-01 08:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by AlienXS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should chill.
She was at home and you do not know why she didn't go straight in and to sleep, but perhaps she had someone call later or could not sleep. Your girlfriend has the right to change her mind as you do. You seem a bit too controlling for your own good. Have you never changed your mind or acted in a way that was opposed to your original intentions? You do not own your girlfriend and she has a right to make decisions without you, if you cannot accept that you should not be in a relationship. As to her lying i think you are stretching the concept. She may well have intended to go to sleep, or she may have been stating, that for lack of anything else she would be going to sleep. You are pushing hard to feel that you were wronged here. I think you may be the person who is acting wrong.
2006-08-01 07:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Carol P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my question to you is what did you two do from 8pm to 10pm? If you hooked up and had a good time then dont stress it, Either way you shouldn't stress it, You'r going to go through tons of women through out your life, dont get stuck with the first girl you hook up with, theres tons of ladies out there waiting to meet you. Have fun, and dont stress the little stuff, lifes too short! PEACE!
2006-08-01 07:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by sublime7912003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that she had all intention of going to sleep then friends turned up at her door???
Could it be that she feels you are controlling and don't trust her and she needs to lie to you in order to have some freedom to spend time with friends???
2006-08-01 07:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u plan to sleep nd sumone knocks the door.....wnt u go nd see who it is?????.......must be the same wid her...mite be they all were her unexpected guests...........in case u still feel suspicious...jus go nd ask her politely wid a calm mind.....otherwise u may misunderstand thigs nd mess up ur life!!!!!
2006-08-01 07:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just HAPPEN to pass by, or were you up to some mischief yourself?
2006-08-01 07:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you were passing by and saw her with friends.......
then let her do the talking
2006-08-01 07:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or they knocked and wanted a chat which she wasn't planning on, in which case not her fault.
2006-08-01 07:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she lied to you.
2006-08-01 07:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by KMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋