Well I am just an emotional mess right now. I am in the process breaking up with my gf of almost a yr and a half and we have been engaged for about a year. I Love her to death and I don't want this to happen. She is making me move out this weekend. The thing is that I have not been making her happy for many months and she is sick of me not showing any emotion towards her and I know I have some problems with showing affection and communicating. I want to change myself not only for her but for myself too because right now I have been depressed for while and it seems like there is nothing that I can do about it. I'm afraid when I move out that I am just going to go into deeper depression and its going to be very hard to get out of it. I still have deep feelings for her and I want to work it out but I have had many chances to do so.
2006-08-01 00:28:34 · 4 answers · asked by Ivan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seek therapy.
2006-08-01 00:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a break but still keep in contact, if youre not giving her what she wants take a listen to that. talk about stuff, get to know her again, most of all give her the space she needs, if you really love her you've got to let her go for now... and who knows maybe you'll get back together stronger and better. but it soiunds like both of you are unhappy now... take time out re-centre and then see what happens... all the best.
2006-08-01 00:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by matt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope it all works out for you. hugs cost nothing so does saying i love you. it might not be too late buy her some flowers stroke her hair and tell her how much you love her and want this to work then gently take her chin in your hands and kiss her softly. but im not her and i hope she comes round. go docs and get some depression pills and pick yourself up x
2006-08-01 00:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a god sent message and move on...your better off without her trust me theres tons of honey's out there. Go get yourself help and dont stress the bullshit.
2006-08-01 00:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by sublime7912003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋