I wrote about me and some guy couple of days ago. I heeded to some lady's advise of ignoring him and see what happens. I did that and he called me a lot more that day but still nothing has changed. He still haven't offered to come and see me in the new town i moved to.
When he calls me, we just talk for few minutes like a regular check on how i am doing. I am really confused as i like this guy. Should i tell him how i feel? I moved away to a town that is about 45mins flight away. So it makes things difficult for me...
I need adivse on what to do... this is really killing me!
2006-08-01 00:24:35 · 15 answers · asked by Sahem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have three options and the first one is not really an option. It is mandatory knowledge: You need a man who is CRAZY about you and you should NEVER settle for less. (By the way, he doesn't sound like the one, but he may just be taking it slowly, I mean he DOES call you, that's a good thing.) The second option is to keep ignoring him. Guys need a good sexy chase or they loose all interest. Never chase or pursue him. That being said, your 3rd option is to tell him the truth: exactly what is on your mind, "Baby, I want you to come visit me, so when should I pick you up from the airport, Huh? Tell me, tell me." By the way long distance is literally for the birds in my opinion. Don't you need some FLESH to keep you occupied. There are tons of available, God fearing, good looking guys in that town who would love to get to know you and live within 20 minutes DRIVE not 45 minute flying. An answerer before me made reference to a book you should read T O D A Y (!!!) by Greg Behrendt, "He's Just Not that Into You." And you should also read, BEFORE THE WEEK IS UP: Mars and Venus on a Date by John Gray. It explains MEN. Period. Arm yourself girl! Avoid heartbreak and wasted time. While you're reading listen to "Ready for Love" by India.Irie from her Acoustic Soul album. Oh! I'm getting excited for your healing and success and happiness in love!!! Be blessed.
2006-08-01 00:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about how you really feel. It would help you a lot as well as he would think about a way to deal with this.
Do not hide your feelings my friend. Just tell him know that you are suffering... May be the same he feels right now so that you both could find a way to be together because being apart of one another besides hiding feelings will lead to a very sad end. Do not go to that end because it will hurt you a lot. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-01 00:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him waht u think as that will really ease u & will make u feel better.U will be able to know what he thinks of u & now its advisable that u shud know it as early as possible else things will be difficult for u & u will not be able to come out of this anymore.All the best from my side.Wishh he loves u & just wanted to hear from u.bye take care
2006-08-01 00:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by sunil_frn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must come To you if he is a real man & truely like you i know i would travel the even ses to see the one i love
But maybe h just can't then try first to ask him what he thinks about you then if it's positive then tell him what you feel if not then keep them to another time
2006-08-01 00:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Yagami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sally,
You would be better off if you just forgot this guy and started hunting around for someting closer to home.
If he wants to see you, he will come see you. Quit worrying and go out and have a good time..
2006-08-01 00:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him on the phone or computer more often and tell him how you feel and tell him that you wish you could see him. hint to him that you would like a visit by him. find out how he feels about you.
2006-08-01 00:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by lacia2159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you purpose him then you lost your image and your value.
This is nature rule that man have to purpose a girl, otherwise men can't respect the girls.
So I suggest you to try to attract him but never purpose him. If you purpose him then he just use you (for sex and other things)and then may be throw.
2006-08-01 00:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sincere with yoUr self and do the right thing u feel about the guy,just follow ur feeling and see his reaction after that u decide what to do!
2006-08-01 00:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by active1144 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah!! come on give it a time he will do it and he will move forword but just give it time dun forgot he cant just pack and leave just like that!
and dun forgot there is a big chance that he is wondering and lmao maybe he is in answers askin does she like me should i go there?
belive me it will be ok just give it time and it will be ok!
2006-08-01 00:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sally, call the guy now.and invite him to come and visit u this weekend!
after that u'll see what would happen. if he came that's good and if he refused just forget him!
2006-08-01 00:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋