Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for like 4 or 5 months now and we have started to talk about 3 somes. and anywayz we decided to have one with 2 chicks (one being me) and one with 2 guys (one being him). We have chosen my best friend and one of his mates from his old skool. But the more i think about it the more scared i get. Coz my best friend is really experience but ive only ever gotten with my boyfriend. I keep thinking that he mite end up like her better but i cant back out now coz its all set. I just want to know if this was a bad idea and if i was doomed from the start.
2006-07-31 23:45:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was a horrible idea. And you can always back out.
2006-07-31 23:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie its not to late to go back, it's not set in stone. I don't recommend doing it, especially because you already regret it and you haven't even done it yet. Imagine how you will feel after the fact. Besides if you really care about him it's going to haunt you every time he looks at your friend or mentions her name. It's not a good thing to try with a boyfriend. If you want to have a threesome then you should have tried it when you were single with some friends or people you know and can trust.
2006-08-01 06:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question of a threesome always conjurs up a lot of fears if you were not ready for this kind of thing and are still unsure then it is never to late to back out only you have the power to stop things like this happening because without you there is no threesome so being to late to back out is not an option it is an excuse.You are after all a human being with feelings and if he can't understand that you are just not ready at this early stage of the relationship to do this then yes i would say that he is just using you to get what he wants and has got no respect for you at all.
2006-08-01 06:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ALWAYS back out! And if your having doubts you probably should. Just tell your man and your friend that you've changed your mind and you feel it's just not something your into. If they both care about you they will understand.
2006-08-01 07:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK STUPID!!! it's never too late to back out it is your life right??? what you two should have done for a threesome is gotten someone neither of you know personally, that way there would not be any attachment to them, perhaps he just wants to f--k your girlfriend and talked your dumb-ss into it. hell no don't do it stupid!!!
2006-08-01 06:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think he's gonna like you more after going thru with it? What do you gain from all of this? Would your relationship suffer if you said 'No'? If so it's on shaky grounds. I think you know what you have to do, or not do.
2006-08-01 09:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he "likes" your best friend better then he's not worth it. You have right to change your mind.
2006-08-01 06:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by amanda k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad very bad and you can back out tell him to find someone else and you do the same
2006-08-01 06:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be. If you really don't feel comfortable with it let your boyfriend know and if he really loves you he'll understand......
Good Luck!!!!!
2006-08-01 06:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by thicksauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely
2006-08-01 06:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋