Hi guys,it's all about this lady that i told you some time back that i be friended for nearly 3 years,when i expressed to her my feelings and how much i loved her,she told me she had 3 guys before me and that it would only be possible if i accepted to be the fourth.i persisted and ignored all her words.now we are seriously inlove.was she lying to me or it's true she was seing these guys?
2006-07-31 23:27:05 · 19 answers · asked by kennyaggy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm My first thought is, yes - she was seeing them. Why would she lie about something like that? My second thought is are you so sure she is not still doing it? My last thought is why are you concerned about it now? Are you having second thoughts? Suddenly jealous? You might want to work out this issue now or it is bond to be a big problem later. Good Luck.
Oh, btw - at one point in my life I was dating 3 guys. Each knew about the other and I was always upfront and honest about it because I did not want anyone to get hurt. I was not having sex with any. I just wanted to be free for a while and date. She might have been doing the same when you came along and changed her point of view.
2006-07-31 23:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Twinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a freak? What should it matter? She told you. You accepted and now you have a problem with it. Act like that or question her past and she will be telling number 5 that she was with 4 before him.
Anyway, most girls really mean 9 if they say 3, but still it should not matter. She is with you. Be happy.
No, see in the other questions you made out like she was seeing three guys at once and you would be #4, but now you say she had three guys in the past and you are her fourth. There is a big difference. Either way she told you in advance and you accepted. Live with it or leave. From the looks of it you have been chasing her for three years, so she could be pulling trains with the local street gang every Saturday night and you would still kiss her where she asked you to. Why are you asking strangers?
2006-08-01 06:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by martin b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a womans point of view, I would be very careful.
If she wasn't lying then she is a bit of a girl, (if you know what I mean) and if she was lying, what else can she lie about?
2006-08-01 06:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by sarah k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the difference if she was seeing 3 or 300 if you love her. Good to have experienced girl.
2006-08-01 06:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Previous three men were her boyfriend. you should be happy she told you about them.
just forget about the past and be happy with your girl.
at least you said it yourself, you've been on her tail for three years!
so be happy and x the "3 guys"
2006-08-01 06:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? I don't and neither should you. Its her life and you don't own her. Keep up with the attitude and she'll have number five on the go without you even knowing about it!
2006-08-01 06:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ian H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to ask ur self if it matters if she with u then be happy he chose u. jealousy is an in security. u need to let her know how u feel.
2006-08-01 06:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by thsgysnts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a period of three years, so I think she wasn't lying to you.
2006-08-01 06:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jovan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has the past got to do with now?
Ask yourself that. Just enjoy what you have.
2006-08-01 06:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yes.. because she wanted to know if you accept her for herself not for any other reason.. smart girl..
2006-08-01 06:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by meshan_heek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋