There is this girl at my school; I told her I liked her, and she told me that she liked me too. We text each other a lot even during class... But she's too shy!! She seems too shy to talk to me in person, but she isn't shy texting me??
There is this other guy who likes her, but she told me she doesn't like him. But she talks to him in person more than me?
Is she cheating on my emotions, or is she just shy? Her sister told me she really likes me and talks about me a lot, but she's shy..
Here is a picture of me... I'm nothing special... Why would she be shy of me? or is she really interested in the other guy?
http://img87.imageshack.us/img87/1083/jayblueadidassp6.jpg
2006-07-31 23:03:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, my advice is that you really need to find a way to be alone with her. For one, don't show any signs of jealousy, just be yourself. And although you might dread it, you have to come right out and ask about your relationship, I mean find out where you stand, so you know where to go from here. From what you wrote, I think you have a good chance... Ok, I know it's silly, but maybe even pull her aside, and look her deep in the eyes, and tell her that you want, to go further with her. Personalize it, you know she already want's you, just express your confidence... ;)
2006-07-31 23:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question...she is just shy. You can take it as a compliment...it means she really, really likes you...and you make her tongue-tied and feeling awkward...so don't give up on her...she sounds like a real winner. The reason she can talk to the other guy okay is because she has nothing invested in him emotionally...do ya see it? Stay cool and consistent...she'll eventually feel comfortable enough to talk to you...and then you can get to know each other. Why don't you ask her to hang out with you...like the park or something? That might move things along.
2006-07-31 23:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she does like you. And doesn't like this other guy as much. The fact that she is ok to talk with you, but not in person to me says that she is shy and frightened she'll make a fool of herself somehow. By texting, she has time to think and re-word everything, but face to face talking, she doesn't have that back-up. Don't try to make her feel too awkward or uncomfortable, but try to talk to her more in person. Ask her about herself, her thoughts, even how her day is going. Start basic until you get to that next comfort level, then push to the next step.
It sounds like she isn't that worried about impressing this other guy, so its alot easier for her to talk with him.
Be fair to her, understand she may be very shy, give her time and patience, but keep that person to person contact going.
Good-Luck!
2006-07-31 23:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just shy...she hasn't got a problem talking to this other guy because she doesn't care about him...be patient,if u really like her...u just have to wait until she feels comfortable enough!
2006-07-31 23:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hai,
I understand what you will be feeling.she might be in shy.
You wrote that she talks about you at home,it means she misses you at home ,remmember that when a girl tells you ''i miss you'' no one can miss you that much.She might be talking to the other guy as a friend. And pleeeez don't think that you are not special.Every one of us has our own talents, and offcource you looks realy handsome..............
2006-07-31 23:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Naushida J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really likes u that's why she is shy talking to you or maybe she has an ulterior motive towards you or better still she loves you cos i think one always have some butterflies in his/her stomach when it comes to standing face to face with someone they really love.
2006-07-31 23:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by oasis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes jus really shy n even if she talks to another guy who likes her it might be that she thinks of that guy as her friend thats why she she talks to him more comfortably but since she likes u she might feel little shy trust me my friend she had a friend and he likes her but since they were friends first she is not so shy of him
2006-07-31 23:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by cute gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may not be comfortable talking to you face 2 face yet if she is really shy just keep talking to her face to face and work yourself in. and dont worry about the other guy show some confidence kid! the ladies love it. you just got franchised, tardo.
2006-07-31 23:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by the franchise, boy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ur hot ..... ok shes just shy and she likes u so much dat she feels if she talks to u in person she might just mess it up or u might not like her and shes talking to the other guy coz she doesnt care if he doesnt like her or not ur the one she as her eyes set on .....believe me everyone finds it better at writing it down they open up better even me :))
2006-07-31 23:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am shy to but not that shy,i think she might be playing you so be-careful and don't turn your back.i can't think of any reason why she would Caz you look like a nice guy
2006-07-31 23:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Sweets~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋