i am very much phy attracted to my friend.. and he too... but i am engaged to someone else and i love him.. and will be getting married soon ..right now he is in some other country ... i am not able to control my sexual desire over here... i sometimes feel no one is going to know it as it is going to stay b/w me and that guy and i feel like having sex with him but fear for doing it as it is a sin... should i do it or control myself??
2006-07-31 23:01:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!!! DONT DO IT!!! masterbate!!! cos if e had 2 find out u dun it imagine ow hurt e will be!!! nd if u rly love him u wont do it!! nd if u dnt love him you wont marry him!! pls dont do it, e'll be broken!! nd feel betray, nd h8 u, neva tlk 2 agen if e wer 2 find out... say ur frend wants 2 brag 2 every1!!! ITS A BIG MISTAKE HUNI!!!
2006-07-31 23:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by boing boing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ahead, have sex with the guy, but CANCEL your wedding, your obviously not ready to begin a true committment with the person you so-called 'love'. be truth to yourself, dont lie, if you truly truly loved that person your engaged with your love would not permit you to have sex with another one, its ridiculous.
if i were you, id slap myself, cancel the wedding, put things to the side and realize, 'do i really want to get married?? no! im attracted to other people, i shouldnt hurt anyone's heart when they havent done anything to me, i need to straighten myself out with what the hell i want to do with my love life'.
by the way, the idea that no one would ever find out, it could be true, but itll pay back to you in the future, im not lieing, it happens.
2006-07-31 23:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by sueet2b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it....
If u really love your fiancee, you wont be able to do it.... the thought of cheating his trust would just not let you do it....
U r a grown up girl.... take your own decision and then be ready to take the responsibility for the same.....
2006-07-31 23:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting married then don't do it.
If you do it then don't get married. It's not complicated.
It's not about sinning it's about you being honest with what you want in your relationships.
2006-07-31 23:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by liljomo1234 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens my friend and is natural but if u dont control ur emotions now u wud be repenting for it throughout ur life
2006-07-31 23:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by golden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your promblem is that you caNT CONTROL YOURSELF WHEN
IT COMES FROM MAN.
2006-07-31 23:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋