okay can u help me plez?

Question

okay i havent seen my dad of step family in bout a year and im goin up to see them soon and i was thinkin bout tellin my family bout me doin drugs and smokin and havin a boyfriend who had a drug addtction and then cheated on me and got hur pregnant yea i could ask my step mom 4 advice but i dont think im ready to bare all rite now should i tell and wat should i tell

if i tell it could also get my mom in trouble and i dont want hur to know i also tryied suicide a few times

oh and i also need to tell about the anorexia

Answer 1

It's good that you asked. It means you start to be concerned and start to see this as a problem.

The best is to tell your family, including all details, and then ask their advice on how to tell your Mom about it without raising hell. Tell them that you need help on this.

Please be assured that you are not alone in this world. Your Mom brought you to this world and she surely knows that she is responsible for your wellbeing. Since you have two families now, it means you have a lot of helping hands. Be sure that family is the place to go when you are in trouble.

By having this faith you may be able to get out of the idea of committing suicide. Do have faith in your family and in others. There are alot of other people ready to help you. OK?

Hope you get out of the problem soon. I pray for you.

Answer 2

O.K. Sweetie, Here is a little piece of advice. Do NOT tell your Dad right now, especially your step-mom. I tried it when I was in highschool, and hid it from them till college. Being that you haven't had communication for a year, you want to wait till that bond is back. When you know you can tell everything like talking to your friends. If your dad is open and willing to listen, maybe it would be alright to tell him. Just be sure that he doesn't pass judgment that you are terrible and won't amount to anything. Also, we all make mistakes. You will know when the right time to tell all is, and when that time comes, tell them your story and don't hide anything. Good luck.....

Answer 3

It sounds to me like you need some professional help. The first and most obviousl thing to do is drop the man, he's no good for you. Keep your secrets and see a counselor. Dealing with these issues behind thier backs will make it alot better. You don't want any issues with them right? It's best not to say a word and get yourself on a good path.

Answer 4

you should definitely tell them you need help. if you can count on someone its ur family. look i recently lost a 23yr old brother in a car accident, the pain and suffering is left behind to those you love. the pain of loosing a brother and seeing ur mom going crazy over the loss its the hardest thing in the world. you have to think about ur family and those who love you. dont be a wimp face ur problems face on that nothing in the world is worth taking ur life even though it seems that way.

Answer 5

nah, some things are better left unsaid.
let there be time to get to know each other on a family level again before u bring this whole soap opera thing to the table. let them form a good impression again before u tell them the craziness you ve been through. then ease into it if u feel comfortable doing so.

Answer 6

this is serious. erm, are they the accepting kind or the restricting kind? if its the latter, i advice u dont tell them. like you said, it will get ur mum involved too. but this is too much of a secret for one person to keep to themself. maybe instead of telling ur family, juz tell ur mum bout a small portion of all of this. if u are not ready to bare it all, dont force yourself. this is ur personal info, let them in ur life when u think both u and them are ready to accept the truth.

Answer 7

well dont get depressed ,and u can tell all that to ur mom ,it might make u feel light and reduce ur inner prob.... but b sure that u have to tell her in a cool manner its all up to u how will u present ur self in front of ur mom ................and plzzzzzzzz dont go 4 drugs and all coz it ruines ur mind as well as it makes u hollow from inside.........and never think of suicide b a brave person and dare to face all the obstacles of life .........................CHEER UP AND B HAPPY GOD BLESS U FRIEND>>>>:)

Answer 8

cut all the drugs suicide and all that petty bullshit and grow up instead why dont you spend your time doing more valuble and meaning stuff like talking to your step family

Answer 9

if u trust em enough to tell them then maybe u sud get it out but if u think theyll just judge u then maybe u sudnt ...rather speak to sum1 whos been were u are..

Answer 10

WOW YOU ARE IN A HUGE TROUBLE
just tell your father on the phone so he cant do any thing to you