ive been thinking of this girl laterly and she is realy great to be with and shes got the looks too,but i have a wonderful girlfreind too.
2006-07-31 22:44:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it's OK ... just remember to invite the girlfriend for a 3some!
2006-07-31 22:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is ok to "think" about it. I think a lot of people think a lot of thoughts....it is your actions that need to be kept in check. If you later come to a conclusion that this friend is something you really wish to presue than you need to do the right thing and let the girlfriend go first. Not only is it the right thing to do, but it shows the "friend" that you are serious and not just after a piece. If you are just after a piece tell the girlfriend that you want an open relationship where both of you can persue other people. What is good for you should be good for her too.
2006-07-31 22:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Twinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody in their relationships have some attraction at one time or another to someone besides their mate. this is normal. we are human beings. it is not wrong. what makes it wrong is when you act on those feelings. the moment it is no longer just a fantasy and you start tacking action to make it possible is when it is wrong. if you love your girlfriend you will have self control. also it is my opinion that Friend's of the opposite sex is unhealthy for any committed relationship.
2006-07-31 22:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it ok for your girlfriend to have sex with other men, if so let her know, and its nice to know you are being honest in this relationship. I am sure your girlfriend appreciates this trait in you, and if you do have sex with this girl, i hope its worth losing what you have with your girlfriend, because that is what could happen, and all for a shag....... you men will never learn, blood leaves brain and its all over
2006-07-31 23:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Carlette D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok. Would you like your girlfriend to do the dirty on you? If you don't want your girlfriend then be honest and tell her. You can't have both cause you will cause a lot of hurt.
2006-07-31 22:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by Susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask yourself why you're with your girlfriend if you're thinking about your best friend or any girl for that matter. Maybe you're not ready to be in a committed relationship right now.
2006-07-31 22:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by shizzngiggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to think...as long as you do not do anything whilst you are still with your gf. If you want to do something with your best friend then end things with your girlfriend first.
2006-07-31 22:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about how your girlfriend would feel, and would you b happy if the boot was on the other foot and your girlfriend was thinking about having sex with another man while she was still with you. This should answer your question.
2006-07-31 22:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, i wouldnt get into it.
You usually find that u get caught out in the end
choose one and stick with them.
be aware.. if you do choose this other girl, she might end up leaving you and then you'll have nobody..
2006-07-31 22:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by _yeah_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its normal, but your thoughts shouldn't last for too long because then you mighy start loosing interest in your girlfriend-and it would be sad to leave your girlfriend for someone you admire for looks and not personality. i hope you dont drooool when you see this girl!!!
2006-07-31 23:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋