2006-07-31 22:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by anggm75 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is such a long time. You should face reality coz he may have get married and settle down already. I believe it is more of a one sided relationship(correct me if my assumtion is wrong). Spend your time doing some other things . U can join your friends for gathering. Please give other guys a chance to prove their woth to U. I believe tt there is better guys out there for U.
2006-08-01 00:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I am not quite sure why you are still so worried about him, but he must have left quite an impression.
Which is good, but can be bad.
If this obsession thing you have going on is affecting your happiness or moving on with your life, then it is destructive and should be ended.
If you are happy and just get horny thinking about him then no biggie. ;) And if he is not into you and you really know that in your heart since it looks this way cause he wouldn't start a relationship with you, then take the happiness and your horniness and hit the road. It is not that big a deal. It seems like it but it isn't. Use your qualities to land either some more friends, another man, or a great job.
You need to do some things to raise your self-esteem. I had been pining over a man who wouldn't leave his wife for me. He promised he would many a time, but never did. He was separated from her, which is the only reason why I dated him, and then he went back and I still pined and hoped over him.
Finally, I got sick of not being the "chosen one" and said FKUC off.
Look into the reasons behind this obsession with him and get it for yourself. You need no one else but yourself and you are wasting valuable precious time on this dick.
2006-07-31 22:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa.. six years is a long time. You know the idea of something is sometimes much better than what it turns out to be. Our fantasies tend to trick us to make one think that everything would be perfect. I think most of us know that the reality is totally different. You would be better served to focus on the here and now and move on. Spending all of your time wondering about that may make you oblivious to a great guy right in front of you.
Just a thought
2006-07-31 22:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by trumpitqwik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that got away always seems better than the one you have or the one that you can have. I cant offer any help only suggestions. You could go out with someone else and be open to enjoy their company and make room for possible love or you could hunt down your past love and chances are, you will discover he aint that great after all. Good luck.
2006-07-31 22:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by gorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to say this but you need to get a life badly. 6 years and you never had a relationship with him?????? Did you ever go out with this guy or even had a friendship with him??? For your own sake GROW UP!!!!!!!!
2006-07-31 22:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some one else thers a lot more fish in the sea you do that and you will forget. as long as you love the new guy.
PEACE OUT
GOOD LUCK !!!!
2006-07-31 22:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by onemorejonathan4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once i was obsessed about an American soldier... and i wanted him badly though i met him 3 times and we barely knew each other.
i just 4got him because i was frustrated about finding him again.
2006-07-31 22:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? It seem to me that it is one sided love. Destroy all those things that remind you of him and move on. Life is good.
2006-07-31 22:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2006-07-31 22:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One would think you would be over him by now.
2006-07-31 22:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋