would u treat ur son differently than u treat ur daughter? if yes y?

Answer 1

yes and no.

i wont treat them differently on surface. coz when u become a parent u love all ur kids the same way( hav no experience but i was told that way.)

but i think i wud love my daughter more( atleast a little bit more). i think daughters are very patient and look after old parents well with love and kindness. they understand the feelings of both old people and kids. they are more affectionate. today gals learnt how to earn like guys and support a family. but guys still didnt learn how to be kind and affectionate. i love my parents but still i think i cant love as a gal does.

when a son grows, he is generally a rebel. wants to be individual(nothing wrong with it) but doesnt respect parents' advice. daughters r not like that.

i know i am partial. its my personal view. i wud definitely have a soft corner for my daughter. i always wish for daughters when i get married.

Answer 2

Ofcourse a son and daughter needs different treatments.

Firstly, u will surely want ur daughter to be brought up with delicacy and ethinicity. U will surely won't want to employ physical punishments, as a small scold should be enough for her. Specially, you will have to be very caring and informative from her 13th year. On the other hand, your son needs to be intelligent and strong, who can get up of his own, when he falls down. He needs to be disciplined and less prone to emotional strains.

But, one thing must be kept in mind all the time, that they should not understand the difference. This can be done by giving equal rights for general cases, like who gets the first choice for the dresses, both of them must finish the home work before going to bed, etc..

Secondly, you need not worry about your son's late night stay outside. But, it should be ur major concern, if ur daughter stays out late. This is not only because the female gender bears the fruit, also because physically they are not competent with male, and self defence is a major issue. This does not make u conservative, but surely makes you a responsible parent.

This can be done by creating a different profile for husband and wife. The mother might chose to be caring and the father to be strict. The mother should take care of the daily necessities, like food and sleep, while the father should be concerned for long term achievements like studies.

Create a clear demarcation to make the daughter understand that she is a girl. Also convince her that, it doesn't make her any difference, but what she should care about is the way she should behave. On the otherhand, you make ur son understand that as he was a boy, he has lots of responsibilities, and also that, it doest give him all the liberty to do anything.

You surely won't want ur daughter to work in a mine, even though in any drastic case or situation, ur son might. You should nurture and help her develop the best of the cultures which will reflect your dignity when she lives with her husband. On the other hand, teach your son, that women should be given respect, whether she may be any stranger or his own sister. This will help him in choosing a good partner and live a happy life.

I think u have understood my point. It is very important that the correct type of response is obtained by our children at the right moment. A small activity of parents like avoiding a situation(not helping) where an old lady is being looted might plant seeds of poisonous weeds in their mind.

And lastly ofcourse, equality of the two genders is impossible. God has made the creation that way. The false impression in their mind from childhood, that men and women are equal, might have drastic impact on their lives when they grow up.

Rest is on God, because God is great!

Answer 3

Yes, because females mature faster, the boy needs longer emotional support. A girl is emotionally ready for the outside world at age 24, males at age 30, but I've only learned this from experience gained over the years. As a young father, it is not something we often thought about. I had girls, so I don't know exactly what would have been different, or whether I would have put saltpeter in his food like I did to my daughters boyfriends, when they came over for dinner each week.

Answer 4

I would, because I would want my son to be unafraid to face the world, but as a man I would feel obligated, to protect my daughter from the same world I forced my son into, Oxymoronic? Do we want our sons in danger but loathe the thought of our daughter being there? Yes we do. My son must be able to stand alone, my daughter only has to ask for help.

Answer 5

By "treat" i guess you mean upbringing. Well yes and no. You wouldnt give one special priviledges over the other, but for example a dad will be more rough on the boy than on his girl.

Dads teach them harder sports, how to do hard work, and be responsible for a home and himself.

A girl we teach to be more afemanite, but both have to learn household duties, physical cleanliness, and responsibilities for wrong actions. I'm all about firm discipline.

Answer 6

Well I would... I would take my son to the Men's bathroom, and the daughter to her bathroom. I would teach them the differnece between each other. Although I do not seem to have a prefer a son more than a daughter or viceversa

Answer 7

Nope, I will treat my kids the same. I would never have favorites. No matter if its a girl and a boy they will be treated the same. It's wrong to favor one more than the other.

Answer 8

i might treat my son differently from my dauhgter if they have different reasoning standarnds i will give responsibilities and and better conditions to the better intellect sothat i make sure the one with shortcomings will be cattered for by the other in my absence therefore the fact stands on their own intellectual compitence not on gender and if they have convincingly equal or commendable standards i will treat them alike

Answer 9

I even have 3 toddlers. My son became the 2nd born new child. i don't experience as though I taken care of him in yet in a distinctive way yet i be responsive to i ought to extra comfortably relate to him and his needs with the aid of fact we are the two male. A fact from this situation is that my older daughter as quickly as accused me of loving him extra. I, factually, informed her that i like her extra yet understand his needs extra clever.

Answer 10

Depends. But I will treat my girl better because she will not be with me forever. While son, will always trouble me with his problem now and in future.