cyber chat?

Question

first of all id like to ask u done it ? are u married /single?
if so why ?
if not why ?
my reply will follow soon ,keep looking in .

ok im married ...i av cam im on cam all day chatting away ..buy cyber chatting no ..i think its sick and sad ..its not fun ..why do ppl cyber when u can get it for real ?

Answer 1

Yes, I chat a lot. I have friends all over the world, one of whom is rather more than a friend. I am married (but I am not sure how relevant that is.)

Chatting is a great way of meeting people and of swapping information, asking for advice, giving friends support and so on. I have a great feeling of love (not the capital L one) for loads of people I have never even seen - just know from the way they type and the things they say. It's almost like purposely being blind - depriving oneself of a sense most of us use most of the time when we talk to people. The result is a whole new way of talking which brings all sorts of new ways of knowing people.

If you use a cam, that's fine. Even that doesn't give much idea of what the person is like in real life (as I have found by meeting people for real).

I may be wrong (ok, I was, lol) but I think you may be asking about 'chatting' with the intent of mutually stimulating each other sexually - 'cybersex'. That has also happened once or twice and seems to me to be a paper tiger - though that may be because I am essentially a reality-based person. It seemed to me very little more than mutual masturbation and there was an emptiness about it which, in the end, felt dirty and unappealing.

I am not sure why the people who indulge in it do it. Either they do not have the real opportunity or there is some kind of 'safe' mode operating, so that it's possible to explore things that one might not do in real life. As I (and you) understand, it is not like 'reality' but maybe that is what is appealing for some people.

Answer 2

Again like other people - apologies if by cyber chat you do not mean what we think you mean (i.e. cyber sex)...

But if you do mean it then yes.. I have done and still do it if it is available.

I do have a gf and to be married next year... I know most people think it is wrong and like it is I am cheating on gf, and maybe it is - but I do know 100% I would never cheat on her in real life.

I find it a real turn on watching girls on cam, and also if they want to watch me that is fine.

I do have a reasonably good sex life at home with gf but sometimes due to both working long hours I have to meet my own needs - all men do! so I don't see any harm in sharing that if it helps someone else get off as well?

Also I find that if I have had cyber with someone during the day, sex with my gf is much better in the evening, not because I am thinking of the other person, just that I am much more aroused.

Hope that makes sense - I know many people think it is a bad thing but I try to think of it as being positive.

I think every man on here has said the same thing but if you do run out of people to contact I'm on yahoo apm796j or on MSN [e-mail]

Have fun :)

xxx

Answer 3

Yep I've done it, both with chatting and with cam too! Is great fun, and yes I have a bf - infact, we did some cyber together as well!!!

One bit of advice tho - some guys wanna cyber and then meet. If u only want cyber then say upfront else things can get a bit messy.

Also, know ur limits - I didnt want to go any further with one guy and he gave me loads of abuse through emails etc.

Apart from that its great - go for it! ;)

Answer 4

I've done it a lot ... I'm married but like to have fun with ladies who are looking for something to make their lives a bit brighter! It's not like it's ever going to happen for real although there's always the possibility ... but to have some dirty chat with a lady always makes me smile ;-)

Find my Yahoo ID and add me to Messenger if you fancy some fun too! The same goes for any ladies who read this reply ... Any age, married, single, divorced, widowed, BBW or skinny minnie ... I'm up for fun with anyone (except guys!)

Answer 5

I would love to chat cuz I like to meet new and interesting people. I don't know why it matters if I'm single but I am after 3 years because we have very different goals in life and we are unable to make them work together.

Answer 6

I chat on the internet all day! in yahoo chat and msn, i'm not married have a partner. I like chatting, make my day pass quicker while I'm at work

Answer 7

I in a long term relationship and i chat to people online,and so does my boyfriend.Why? well because i find it interesting to chat to different people and make friends,but i do draw the line in meeting someone.No need,and i wouldnt feel safe!

Answer 8

i have done chatting. i do have a partner. it is just a bit of fun

Answer 9

ive done it and i got a gf. it is a lot of fun, but it is hard to find people who want to do it

Answer 10

ive done it before,im single,i did it because the girl i did it with wanted to tell me what she wanted to do to me when we met up.