My boyfriend is still advertising on single sites as "single and looking" His yahoo profile that he updated just a month ago (we've been together six months) still says single and looking. I've asked him about the single sites, he sayd he's not looking for anyone else he is just "browsing". What should I do to get him to see how humiliating it is to me??
2006-07-31 20:55:44 · 6 answers · asked by carla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the unfortunate truth is, he's looking for a better deal.
That is unacceptable...he shouldn't have done it in the first place, and once you made it clear it bothered you, he DEFINITELY should have taken it down. You would have every reason to break up with him, on the other hand I also think this COULD be a forgivable offense if you want to forgive. But I think you have to demand that he take down his profiles. If he absolutely won't then I think you have to dump him for your own well being and self-respect.
I have a confession...I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months and I recently set up a new yahoo profile to see what was out there (I was having doubts about the future of the relationship and I was worried about my options.) Then a couple days later I felt really guilty and paranoid he would find out and I deleted it. I decided I wanted to give this relationship my all. If he had found out, I would have died, and he would have been REALLY upset. He would have had every right to be, too!
2006-07-31 21:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by goatluvver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's completely disrespectful, and it hurts at the same time. You need to sit him down and tell him, that him still advertising as single and looking on websites doesn't exactaly reassure you that this relationship is even worth it the effort, and how much it truely hurts you because you care about him. If he still refuses to change his status on those sites, then he probably really is single and looking. Then you should probably make his wish come true, and make him really "single and looking"
2006-07-31 21:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Liquid Cherry Blood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the muthafu-cker! I know I wouldn't tolerate that from any girl I was with.
2006-07-31 21:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid dump him you do not need anybody who emotionally plays with your mind like that.
2006-07-31 21:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same to him, let him taste some of his own medicine.
2006-07-31 21:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geezer 31 is right!!!
2006-07-31 21:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by silly c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋