2006-07-31 20:52:21 · 22 answers · asked by freddy c 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Let your parents know immediately and hopefully they will help guide you to the proper conduct for a preteen. You are much too young to even be thinking about sex. Maybe your parents or a school counselor can help you find appropriate activities for someone your age. Don't be in a hurry to grow up too soon, its not all that its cracked up to be.
Best of luck!
2006-07-31 20:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by ididntdoitthedogdid 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I will NOT ask how such a thing came about. But I recommend that you try hard to go back to being a kid again. After all, there's no undoing it now, is there? And you are hardly old enough to start thinking of yourself as an adult because of this. So try, really try, to act like a kid again.
Now, having said all that, it occurs to me you may not have dealt with all the things you need to here. Was the person you did it with an adult? Then you really do need to tell your parents about this, and that means even if you were not forced. Because at your age, it's not fair to "talk you into it" or bribe you to do it, because you are not legally old enough to consent to such acts.
If you were both kids, then you two should make very brave and tell both sets of parents. Not because you want to be tattle-tales or anything, but because they need to know this kind of very important information about what is going on with their kids. I really don't expect you will do it, because I figure you know they will be major upset, but frankly, I think you need to tell them anyway. If you "call a conference" and get both sets of parents in the same place at the same time, and tell them all at once, they will be warned of how important it is by the fact that you made it this big deal conference.
Maybe you are wondering why it is such a big deal? Why do you have to tell anyone? Because growing up too soon is much of what is wrong with all those criminals and junkies and really loser people you see out there. Getting into adult behavior before you have adult judgment is just super, super dangerous. No way I could explain all the reasons why; just trust me on this. It's no way to waste your childhood, my dear!
2006-07-31 21:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be ready for sex. You can't understand what could happen to you and the other person. There are emotional and physical effects of sex that you don't have the ability to handle. You may think you can deal with it, but you can't, yet.
If it was someone your own age, tell your parents if they are caring and protective of you, but if they are unloving, tell another trusted adult like a teacher, counselor, or family member. If it was against your will and/or someone 18 or over, tell a trusted adult also, like a parent, teacher, counselor, or police officer.
You need to tell someone immediately and don't have any more sex until you are an adult. Don't let ANYONE touch you sexually, even if they say they love you. They DON'T love you if they do that before you're an adult and ready to make your own decisions.
I hope you take my advice.
2006-07-31 21:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ashana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
10 wow thats pretty dam young where was your parents at i advise u dont have sex again til u get a little bit older u got a whole life out here to have sex with a girl u should be thinking bout the books in school and your grades school is bout ready to start back i cant image that my 10 yr old child is having sex its all bout school right now and i cant wait til it start back but think bout this u would like sex a lot better if u was older and its with the right person dont rush into anything right now get thur school make a life get somewhere sex is not everything and at your age i cant even image that.
2006-07-31 21:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by teresa_na2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a Mom of a 10 year old , Please talk to someone about it. I can't even imagine my son wanting to have sex yet. You have so much of life ahead of you, there will be plenty of time for those things . Did you want to have it...or did someone make you???
If someone made you ...there is a hot line you can call 1800-422-4453 SOMEONE CAN HELP YOU. If you did it just to try it out I would not do it again, until you know you are ready for a commitment. You need to have fun as a kid, sex is a very adult thing...and comes with a lot of responibilities. I'm so sorry that you did that, please listen to a Mom who cares about you,talk to someone about it. ...Someone you trust....I will be praying for you, take care of yourself.
2006-07-31 21:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by light2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur the perfect example of what this poor pathetic world is comming to. what else is there to do? now just hope that the chick u screwed doesnt get pregnant. if she does ur gonna be a 10 year old father.
2006-07-31 20:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by predictable 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have done that you are still young,and there are so many thinks you still don't know about sex tell your parents so that they can advice you and tell you the consequences of sexuality and growing .
2006-07-31 21:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Faith Nelisiwe N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to be honest with you yu are ten you shouldnt even be thinking about sex their are so many other thing you should be doing but having sex is not one of them my advice is to stop and if your not going to do that then just make sure you use pertection .
2006-07-31 21:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please. Don't even think about such things if you really are a 10 year old. However if you are too grown up or mature for your age and if your circumstances force you into such things...then I am sorry for your plight
2006-07-31 21:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell anyone anything unless you can handle being sent to hell. Otherwise enjoy it,do it again only when you want to,be safe sexual,God bless you.
2016-04-09 19:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋