I have been troubled for a while now because I feel that I am not good in bed. The couple of guys I have dated never expressed how or if they enjoy our sexual life. My boyfriend of 6 years never commented that I'm good or I should work on it. What makes a woman good in sex? And how do you know you're good at it?
2006-07-31 20:46:43 · 20 answers · asked by nirvana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I see your asking if the guy thinks your good...so, like one poster said guys just want sex...true and false. First...if the guy is acting like its more of a chore to have sex with you and trying to get it over quick...I'd say that is not good sex. Lots of kisses, with a woman running her hands over my body and her getting into it as much as me..thats good.
2006-07-31 20:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by savage_haven 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
honey, the truth is ,if u were, then your just a piece of meat, a blow up doll and or a thing to use like a fast hot rod. I tell u the truth without true love sex becomes boring over time. Is that what u want ? If a man judges u because your good in bed as the first attraction,,,ohhmaan you will never gain a true relationship that lasts. I challenge u to this from your man. ASk him not to have sex with him for some made up reason ,for a week and test his true love for u. To answer your question If i truly was in love it wouldint matter so much if she was good in bed or not, i would accept her for what she is. However i would tell her if she is irritating or good in bed though. Because its easier to be honest then to lie. The reason ,it sounds to me like their not telling u is because they are using u for sex and not love.
2006-08-01 04:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I know i'm good in bed because my wife brags at length about how I'm a "sexgod" to all her friends. For ladies, if you ar good in bed, you have a special term called S L U T. If he says, "You're such a sl ut!" then you know you're good and should sign up for the Olympic team. But seriously, if he didn't think you were good, he'd be doing someone else and giving you bad excuses why he doesn't want you anymore.
2006-08-01 03:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been with a woman who's not good in bed. Really, we're easy to please, to us different women just have different boundaries, likes and dislikes and work with that. I don't know if I am good at it, but as long I can turn the other person into a puddle, that makes me feel good.
2006-08-01 03:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by loki_niflheim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all a women cant really be good in bed unless the man is better since it takes a great deal more time for a women to get arroused and to get off so if you think your bad in bed chances are your b/f is'nt doing you right therefore you think your failing him by not being envolved but in reality he is the one being selfish and not taking the time to get you to the point where you need to be and feeling the way should to be totally at one with your partner
2006-08-01 03:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by prepaidyeh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he stayed around for 6 yrs. u must have been at least ok. if a guy comes back u r good... if he c u m s then u r good...if you enjoy it then u are good enough. if they ask u to do something new, try it see if you both like it, or u can ask to try some new things and then try as much as u like, the more u try the more things u going to find that u like, I got a lot of suggestions, but not for here, contact me directly if you wish at wizzard4angels and we can talk...
2006-08-01 03:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are just happy to get a girl in bed and empty his sack!!!
However, there are a fair few who like to enjoy a girl who can get him off with the slightest touch, or muscle contraction...
Maybe you are worrying too much because the men aren't very expressive... Perhaps you just need to ask them what they want, and how they want it and see what happens...
2006-08-01 03:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know that i am good in bed because i have never failed to make a women orgasm at least 3 times every session
2006-08-01 03:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends a lot on what he likes to do in bed, or out of it as the case may be.
Each person is different.
2006-08-01 03:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the end of sex, Guy can easily understand whether his wife has got satisfaction or not,and it can be mutually discussed also.
2006-08-01 03:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by ponnu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋