I want to date again. Everytime I get attention from someone though I push them away. I try to be friendly with them at first most give up cause all they want is some ***. I won't just give that away. I've had two past bf's die, one in prison for the rest of his life and numerous cheat. I'm still friends with ALL the living ones even the cheater and jail bait.
2006-07-31 19:34:07 · 13 answers · asked by bird_e80 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
eventually every guy is going to want sex but if they want it too soon for you you're right to tell them to wait or take a hike.
wherever you're meeting guys you should find someplace else. it sounds like you wind up with the wrong kinds of guys. try meeting some nice boring professional guys just to see what's out there and give you an idea of how to find guys who are safer to get close to.
2006-07-31 19:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The world is moving away from a "lovely dovey" place to a "down and dirty" one. It's all about the moment, and if you want to date again, you might want to give out some *** so you get noticed. Otherwise, you are scaring people off with these stories of prison inmates and dead boyfriends. Leave them out next time and try "your place or mine?"
2006-07-31 19:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judge and u will not be judged. Keep yr principals. Maybe u shd help others so u will have a better circle of friends. Be kind 2 others and help those in need do not dwell on the past. What is done cannot be changed but create a better future 4 yrself.
2006-07-31 19:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have being hurt. It seems that you have a tendancy to attract men who are not good for you. I am glad that you stand by your principles. One think you have to realise is that all men are not the same. You need to try and date someone who you would never consider. What is the harm in trying out something different? Go ahead and get yourself some good man. You definately deservice it.
2006-07-31 19:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you got issues call doctor phil and try dating a christian he wont cheat or end up in jail and we all die but a christian man is less likely cause he walks with god but what do i know
2006-07-31 19:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by JOSEPH S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like pushing them away is just your intuition telling you to be a little more selective in who you hang out with! You deserve better than you've had.
2006-07-31 19:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick some better guys to date and look for some friends you just got to hunt down the right man.!1
2006-07-31 19:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself always. Take risk. Live your life. Stand firm on the foundation that you believe in.
2006-07-31 19:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by bond_babe_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been HURT.. and as the saying goes.. once bitten twice shy.. so you push them away before they can hurt you again.
2006-07-31 19:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by walkietalkiethree2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you need some time to heal. do this healing alone. you ll be able to love again but it will be better. give yourself time. take time to breathe and take the time to get grounded. you can do it.
2006-07-31 19:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by Riss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋