i won't tell him and i'll still take one when he gets home I'll act excited if i am and already know or try again if i'm not the wait is killing what should i do
2006-07-31 19:27:37 · 9 answers · asked by danny p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Should i take the pregnancy test or just wait. i won't tell him. i'll still take one when he comes home and i'll act excited if i'm pregnant or keep trying if i'm not what should i do?
2006-07-31 19:38:14 · update #1
You will find out either way. It matters on how well you can keep a secret. But i guess he wants it to be special, so for his manly sake, i would wait.
Just look for just in cases. How to take care of yourself just in case you are pregnant, should be what you focus on for now.
Dont stress.
2006-07-31 21:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by King 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to know now because you are the person carrying the child, and if you have a child "in utero" you may need to make some life style changes. As for your husband's need for being in the moment, I guess it wouldn't hurt to do a test once he gets home, and fake surprise. But you could also greet him at the door and say the following, "Honey, we're having a baby."
2006-07-31 19:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by PDY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one. take the darn test if the suspense kills you, it would certainly have me running for a loop. you just have to use your acting skills either way. is he good about reading you? if so you might need to wait.
wait, you said you swore that you would wait, so i take that back, you should wait, it's only fair to him. be happy you are with a man that is excited and interested as you are. Wait for your man, it'll be worth it.
2006-07-31 19:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Skypride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u mean the pregnancy test? I think u shd wait so if its positive the joy or disappointment shared tog will be something u will treasure all thru yr pregnancy.If its negative u will have his love and support if its positive u will share the joy of parenthood tog. WAIT.
2006-07-31 19:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him. If you take it before he come home, then in future he would bring up how finding out you're pregnant was both of your happiest moment. You will really regret it.
2006-07-31 22:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are in this together. If you swore to wait, then wait till you're toghether.
2006-07-31 20:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by lisacantcook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead - it won't hurt anything. Why did he want you to wait? Why did you promise to wait. I wouldn't do such a thing.
2006-07-31 19:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by taurus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him don't ruin the surprise.
2006-07-31 19:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lucia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have NO idea what your question is.
2006-07-31 19:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by mark c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋