he says he just wants to watch another girl on me and he would NOT touch her.i've never been with a girl and i'm kinda curious but I'm scared it would ruin our relationship or give him some kinda permission to cheat. So should I go for it or not????
2006-07-31 19:24:47 · 22 answers · asked by sexy momma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say don't do it if you value your relationship.And it sounds like you do. This might sound really old fashioned but...sex is the part of you that you only share with each other , it is the most intimate and personal part of a relationship that should always be just between the two of you. You haven't even done anything yet but you already Question his motives and future faithfulness . there is no way anything good can come from allowing this in your relationship.
2006-07-31 19:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Donna Wanna know 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do this.
He will want to get involved. He will get involved. And the sad fact is that she's the new thing and you are not and it will break your heart.
Men just can't help it. What starts out as a threesome almost always becomes one watching two and wishing they were part of that.
If you love him, tell him that his fantasies are much better than anything that you could do, and ask him to please not make you go through this for him.
It's much much easier for him to simply stab you in the heart quickly. You can never get rid of the images of him with another girl.
Don't do it.
2006-07-31 19:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by boogiewunker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YESS! Go for it. Lesbian scenes are the best!! Nothing in this world is more beautiful than two hot chicks going at it!! Especially if you are doing it with 2 hot chicks going at it! But, then again, femme jealousy will ALWAYS persist in ruining this joyous occation when their's a guy involved, except porn. Everyone gets along in porn. Why can't the world be more like a porn movie?
2006-07-31 19:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not 100% sure if this is what you want. You actually already answered your question. It could ruin your relationship and he may get turned on enough to want to join in. Do you want to risk what you have? Don't do it unless both of you are absolutely certain it is OK. Different strokes for different folks.
2006-07-31 19:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt that he wont touch her. Once things get hot, he will just start thinking with his dick and he will be all over her as well as you. He is thinking that the her on you thing wont last and that it will be you and her on him. Thats every guys fantasy. Just dont even get mixed up in it, especially if you are apprehensive. Later, and only if you want to, then you could re-consider, but for now...just enjoy each other.
2006-07-31 19:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by daddydoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly im into that kinda stuff but i really dont want the woman that i plan on being with forever to get down like that. That is reserved for the women that just want to have fun. the moment you do that you just showed him that your not ready to settle down 4 good and he will lose some respect for you. I could be wrong but just my oppinion. hope i helped some!!!
2006-07-31 19:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by leesciulli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. cause that is exactly what he would use against you if he did cheat. love is between two ppl not 3. and if wants 3 ppl its an infatuation with a sexual dream he has had since he was old enough to think in that state of mind.
2006-07-31 19:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by nclorenz1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is between 2 people, the fact that he has a third already in mind means his heart isn't wholly yours
2006-07-31 19:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by ryandebraal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to set up the rules before going through with it.But if you can't handle the ideal of him touching another,don't do it.
2006-07-31 19:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves you and is attracted to you he doesnt need a threesome and it could possibly ruin your realtionship.
2006-07-31 19:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋