they broke up about a month ago, and it had nothing to do with me, but now he visits frequently,and has taken an interest in me.
2006-07-31 19:19:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, unless you don't really like your best friend.
2006-07-31 19:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by ronron2021 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've heard all his faults from her. Do you really want to date this guy? What if the shoe was on the other foot?
And also, I would avoid dating anyone who's only a month out of a seven year relationship.
When it comes to guys, you don't want to catch the rebound.
And if you do decide to, then be prepared to lose your best friend. Is it really worth it?
2006-07-31 19:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by boogiewunker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just messed up!What kind of friend are you?She was in A SEVEN year relationship,and they havn't even been broken up for a couple of months and you acctually considering going out with him?Put yourself in your bestfriend's position what if you just got out of a SEVEN year relationship and not even two months later he's going out with your bestfriend. Honestly ,how would you feel seeing your ex with your bestfriend,doing all the things you guys use to do. unless you want to lose a bestfriend I suggest you just back off and find someone that wasn't your bestfriend's ex boyfriend.I'm not tring to be rude or anything,but I just think that's REALLY messed up what your doing.I would kick my friends a** if she did that to me!Well good luck it sounds like your gonna need it!Just keep in mind Bros comes before hoe$!!
2006-07-31 19:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really your best friend you wouldn't go out with him. They have been going out for seven years so there is a chance they could get back together so wait atleast 2 months.
2006-07-31 19:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more concerned with your friendship than with some guy. If she is really your best friend, you can talk to her about it. If you KNOW she wouldn't be happy with you dating him and you want to keep things cool between you and her, I would definitely not even ask and completely forget about talking to him. Ask yourself this question: What is worth more? My friendship with her or a relationship (maybe) with him? Make the right choice.
2006-07-31 19:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by ☼ lovethesun11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse not now! your friend doesnt need that type of pressure, and that type of stress, imagine if you were in her position, and it's only been a month after the break up. maybe in time you could go with him, but since she's your best friend, you SHOULD and NEED to wait a little while.
2006-07-31 19:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ SNO0KEMZ ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is rather glaring that the relations is determined and are clutching at straws to attempt to seek out everyone who can get with suggestions from technique of to their son. you've gotten to no longer even try to attempt this. He needs good help from someone who's properly educated to help him. do not get worried. it ought to least confusing outcome in better heartbreak. you do not have were given to decrease to rubble your existence. once they call, tell them that you're busy and rather can't and could no longer get demanding.
2016-11-27 05:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie before you make a move on him, ask your best friend. Those two have a lot of history together and might reconcile.
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2006-07-31 19:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would stay away from him. It is your best friends ex and if you saw him it would be awkward for all concerned.He shouldn't be visiting you. Is he planning some revenge against her?Just something u don't do.
2006-07-31 19:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go ahead...but only if you want your best friend to think you're a B*tch and never speak to you again. I think you need to put your friendship first and tell the guy to beat it!
2006-07-31 19:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Colin W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait a while longer and talk about it with my friend first. I wouldn't ask for permission but just give her a heads up.
2006-07-31 19:24:05 · answer #11 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋