okay guys who out there do not care if a girl is larger and why. and if you are shalow why are you?

Answer 1

I do not care how big the girl is on the outside just how big her heart is on the outside. It is not the outer looks that count but what is really important is what she has on the inside. True love has no outside appearance preferences. I have also read on some of the other comments that fat people are only fat because they don't take care of themselves but there are some genetic illnesses that causes some people to be larger and maybe some people do eat too much or whatever but at least they are not starving themselves like some of these girls are due to all the pressure they are under to stay skinny.

Answer 2

Tall girls usually have some problems to find a guy. That is because the guy wants to be the knight in shining armor and not the short court-jester next to Xena the warrior princess.
On the other hand all super modles are tall. So if guys prefer shorter girls, why are the most beautyful women in the world so tall?

So whole problem is based on how people see themselfes and hiow much they care about what other people think or say. So don't date the unsecure guys who allways need to be reasured how cool they are.
A friend of mine was about 200 lbs or so. And she was only about 5'5". Her boyfriend had less weight and more height and they were happy for about 5 years.

Answer 3

I do care if a gal is larger or not. I suppose it is your right to call me shallow, however I have solid reasoning.
If you are larger...this is very broad but lets say larger = 6'0" and greater then 200lbs. Then that means you are about my size. Any larger then that means you are bigger then me, I would prefer smaller, Its a personal preference. Many guys, prefer larger women, that is their preference. (they can be quite shallow as well...shallow does not equal likeing smaller women)
My personal preference is smaller then larger, its a personal preference thing. I think a women who is short, and fit is cute. I am married, so what I prefer is to stay with my wife regardless. (thank the lord I have a great looking wife, knock on wood).
If you are able to equate a personal preference with being shallow, then likewise I can equate a fat women with being unstable. If a women is not able to take care of herself then why would I want to be with that women? Guys like to feel good about being with the women he is with...large or not, who cares.
If you are having a hard time finding a guy because you are too large, I suppose its the guys fault for not seeing your inner beauty. However if you equate this to being shallow, who is being judgmental?
There are many reasons why a guy would not like a larger women. Not even talking too much about feeding times, who would want to subject themselves to the humiliation in public? Large obese women are nasty looking and gross, I would not be able to get it up, like I said I am very visual.
Understand that I am being bluntly honest as you were being bluntly honest about me being shallow. Honestly does a large women actually feel good about themself? If so, great, why even ask the question? If not, are you prepared to do what it takes and loose the weight? Or are you going to sit around and want somebody to look past the largeness?
I guess the better answer is to say that its whats in the inside that matters most...which is true, however looks go a hell of a long way too.

Answer 4

That's a loaded question. In the second part your statement implies that if a man cares about the fitness of his possible mate he is shallow.

Have you ever gone white water rafting with an obese person? How about rock climbing? Or biking? If these and many other activities are a part of someone's life, doesn't it make sense for them to seek a partner who can keep up?

To call them shallow is at least as discriminatory as for an overweight person to be shunned. You can find someone who loves you and fits your lifestyle, and I'm sure you can do it without calling people names.

Answer 5

Just because you find fat women unattractive does not mean you are shallow. I'm sorry. Each person is entitled to have their own tastes.

It's shallow to assume that people who don't like fat women are shallow. There are plenty of people who adore fat women. In cerrtain parts of Africa, it's quite attractive. They don't stay fat for very long though, because there aren't any Krispy Kremes there.

The reason why most men don't think fat women are attractive is quite simple. It implies that they are lazy. I'm not saying ALL fat women are lazy, just most of them. It's true that some people can't help their weight and while most people say that's their case, it doesn't support their efforts when they're wolfing down a bag of Cheetos. Most women are fat because they're lazy. Because they let themselves go. Because it's easier to dive into a pint of Haagen Dazs than to jog around the block. Is that REALLY the kind of women men should want raising their children? Someone that can't even make it to the fridge without running out of breath?

Plus, it's kind of gross to watch them eat. But that's just MY opinion. Take it with a grain of salt.

Answer 6

I think it is an issue of health. If the person is large but looking like they care about their health by looking clean and like they don't sit in a chair all day then they are very attractive because it comes out in their personality. Typing fast sorry about the typos.

Answer 7

I guess the question is if a girl cares if a guy is larger.

Answer 8

My wife is larger and I love her very much.. I have had smaller girlfriends in the past but none compare to my wife.. She really knows how to take care of me..

Answer 9

well i dont really care
but if shes really really big then thats a problem
because if u cant take care of urself then
that means u dont care about nothin
so i dont like that
its ok for a few pounds more
but not really really big
i think thats juss nasty

Answer 10

i do care but some girl have to know if there fat i can go out wit a fat girl but i have to know if she is trying to do something about it it she go to sit around doing nothing and eat some mroe itz over