(girls) what hints could you give me?

Question

i'm fresh out of the "friend zone" i'm more than a friend and less than a boyfriend (as far as i can tell).

i want to know what are some signs that she is about to consider me as a boy friend?

also, what are some signs that she would liked to be kissed on the lips?

The details:
she is shy.
i'll kiss her cheek and hands often.
i'll cuddle with her all the time.
i'll hold her hand a lot.
i'll scratch her back for a long time, even for hours.
neather of us have been in a relationship before.
i asked her if it was to soon to kiss her lips. she said it was to soon, then kissed my cheek (i think i might have been the first person she kissed).
i asked her out the week before and she smiled (sweetly) & replied with eather "we'll see" or "maybe" (can't remember which).
i was in the "friend zone" for about 5 years.
she isn't "a girly girl" (her quote).
shes not really into the romantic stuff.

that is all the details i can think of at this time.

please list as much as you posibly can thank u

oh we both are 21. also

ok first (if you read) i DID asked her out.

second: i'm looking for signs i can look for, thank you.

Answer 1

okay so let me get this straight first of all.......your question is, what are some signs that she is about to consider me as a boyfriend?

Okay, personally, I've never been in a relationship, but theres still a lot I can say about this one...

1. She is shy: If she didnt like you, or didnt consider you as more than a friend, and if she didnt have any romantic feelings for you, she wouldnt be shy. In my eyes, it seems that if she is shy when she is with you, its really really good thing. Her shyness can be explained by the fact that shes never been that close to a guy before, but trust me, if she didnt feel anything for you, she wouldnt be shy. She is shy because whatever she is feeling is new to her, as she has not felt that way previously before. So there is 1 sign that she may consider you as a bf soon.

2. You mentioned that she has not been in a relationship before, and that obviously when you two are together, she lets you hold her hands, hug, cuddle , etc. I think the fact that she is giving you the chance and the opportunity to do these little sweet things, should give you a hint that she has feelings for you. if she didnt have a bf before, and you are the first person she is like this way with, she really really likes you, but she is probably a bit shy because its her first time going through something like this. So my point is, because you are the first man she is giving a chance, you should take confidence in this, as a major hint!

3. You mentioned she isnt all girly girly and romantic and stuff. But it seems to me, that when she is with you, she inevitably must feel romantic especially if she lets you cuddle her for hours. The fact that she does not move away, and lets you stay with her for so long, is also a really big hint that even though she may say she is not a romantic person, i think she is with you. she probably doesnt do much, but i really think she must be melting inside. so theres hint number 3.

I think that everything you've said leads to the conclusion that she likes you very much and i am pretty confident she wants to consider you as a boyfriend. Since ive never been in a relationship either, i can tell you first-hand what it must feel like for her. I know shes shy, and making you wait pretty long and stuff, but honestly, i think she is totally worth it. give her the time and patience and she will open up to you one day and let you walk into a world she has been saving for one special guy. She just needs time, love, and patience.

I wish you all the best, i hope this helped.

Answer 2

Just let her take her time if this is her first relationship. She probably wants 2 see if u really care about her. She may be scared that if u date eachother that eventually u will break up and can't make a friendship work. She also maybe fears spending her whole life with u.

Answer 3

lol, i am form of in that crisis =) i am at a dorm and i have met (or bigger: ran into) this man that i am rather interested in. it is simply, while i see him i begin to blush like loopy and my center kilos so difficult. i've a boyfriend when you consider that greater than a yr regardless that and i like him to portions, so i do not desire to supply him up for the "new man". i realise one hundred% that it is rather difficult to not supply into that feeling, when you consider that it is the equal for me. this dorm-boy could also be displaying off lovely seen indicators that he likes me, like for instance, while i as soon as got here again to my dorm from the grocery store i used to be all sopping wet when you consider that it rained. i bumped into him within the corridor, and he like leaned into me to place my hair (which was once a bit of messy) in the back of my ear. if i wasn't "off the marketplace" i could have certainly attempted to kiss him or anything. however to me it is lovely seen that what i am feeling for the brand new dorm-man is simply lust, even as with my boyfriend it is real love. we've got a pleasant courting, and that i do not desire to supply that up for a abilities romance with the brand new man. he has requested me to hang around with him a couple of instances earlier than, however i became down the presents. i observed all i desire in my boyfriend. additionally, the enchantment you think in the direction of the brand new man probably rather powerful correct now, however after a bit of of time all of that fades and possibly then he will grow to be "the lesser man" while in comparison to the boyfriend you are with correct now... however ofcourse, that is as much as you to come to a decision =)

Answer 4

see hw she reacts whn u go near to her.
touch her shoulders
go near to her lips.
but ----- ya but
dont touch it.
just give her the feeling of being near.
once she can resist
may not be able to say no too many time.
ya. some time no means yes.
try it

Answer 5

u know how???....
(look straight into her eyes...n pretend that u were talking of someone else) tell her that u like somebody and she is really sweet like her...tell all the qualities u like in her then ask for her advice on how r u gonna tell this girl that u want her to be his girlfriend.... if she got mad then she had feelings for you too....then ask her "will you be mine?"

Answer 6

maybe cuz its her first relationship she's kinda scared about it so take it slow at first and let her know how your really feeling...one day just plant a spontaneous kiss on her and see how she reacts!

Answer 7

you should kiss her when the time is right, even if you may not know when it is, she'll give you some sort of sign

Answer 8

she mus t be some special girl ask her out in a very charming way

Answer 9

as hur out already!

Answer 10

ASK HER OUT ALREADY !!!!!!