im 16 year old guy.....
i met this girl through one of my good friends bridget, ever since i met her 3 months ago i have crushed on her soooooo hard... I cant get her out of my mind. We share the same hobbies/interests and she is very pretty. I am afraid if I ask her out and she says no then she will be all weird and akward around me and she wouldnt want to hang out with me anymore. I really dont want that to happen cuz i love it when we do hang out but i want to further our friendship into a relationship. I dont know if she likes me like i like her so i dont know how to ask her out. can someone help me out, but please please dont say something like just go for it and ask her out...... cuz thats not what i am looking for sorry
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2006-07-31 19:10:02 · 8 answers · asked by Pinky69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think up an activity that the two of you can do that is fun, but not exactly like a "date." In other words, create a situation for more "hanging out." The more time she spends with you, the more she will probably like you. Be the best friend to her that she could ever wish for, and then, just wait. In time, she'll come to see your quality.
2006-07-31 19:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking about movies and then bring in some movies that are playing now.. if you see she is interested in one then say"really?? you would like it? I cant wait to watch it! wanna go tonight?it's gonna be so cool" Be more like a friend and when you go to the movies(if) then buy her the ticket and soft drinks and all.. ask her if she likes the movie and just comment on it.. I think the best place to ask her out is the cinema because she wont think that you are desperate or has a huge crush on her even if you dont show her yet..You are already friends so it s a good start to go somewhere alone .. she wont take it wrong and from there you will be able to understand if you likes you the way you like her.. After the movies ask her if she hungry and tak her somewhere nice where she doesnt usually go.. There you will have the chance to see if she is having fun with you ..Be a friendly lil gentleman .. after the movies and dinner and all,when u r both back home.. send her an sms just telling her goodinght..If you realise that she is into this then you r doing it right.. and go on..spend more time with her and do more things together.. do things you both enjoy and be yourself.. if she shows the same interest then you can tell her that you like her company and you are having fun with her.. things will move on from here..
Best of luck!!
2006-07-31 19:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you guys do hang out, you can get a friend to go with you guys, and then have the friend on the last second back out. That way you two will be alone. I am not telling you to ask her right then and there, but just chill with her. See if it feels right, and whether she has the hots for you or not ;-) Then just bring her home and see how SHE ends the day (hugs or kisses maybe). Whatever happens, email me and I'll give you the next step.
2006-07-31 19:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what the problem is since you and her have the same interest and go out with other friends it would be harder for you if you didn't know her get off you behind and and invite her her to a new project and that you need little help then invite for a coke or lunch for helping you, but go where your other friends, don't go to. and then talk to her have fun be your self if she had fun she will go out agian with you.
2006-07-31 19:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to get her alone, ask her to go to dinner with you its very casual to do this now a days. Then if she is interest you will pick up the vibe and if she isn't interested you will know. If you feel like she is interested just ask her out on another date dont push asking her out on her. Let it gel into it.....
2006-07-31 19:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask her out right away, first know if she likes u the same way, just give her hints that u would like to go out with her, if reacts positively go for it, may be she does likes u and is waiting for u to make the move. good luck.
2006-07-31 19:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her for a coke or cup of coffee to start out with since you seem shy that'll be easiest for you
2006-07-31 19:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by KitKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask he out it will only be akward if you make it akward
2006-07-31 19:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Schmitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋