I KNOW!! When I was with my x...i told him straight out let me know if I'm getting fat/chubby. I'm not gonna take offense...you know how when you start dating someone you put on little weight partly because guys eat twice as much as you do so it's always like let's go out to eat here or could i grab something from frig before we go out or if you make dinner now you're cooking for 2 or sometimes three depending how much he eats so you tend to eat with them.
NEway i gained like 15 lb the first year we were dating and you know what he said?.....I love your *** now.....you have one and then he would slap it. As if that would make me feel better!!!! Whatever! I felt like a cow being sold to the highest bidder Geez. When we broke up I lost the weight almost immediately...because I wasn't eating like 20 times a day....a few months later I ran into him (I was back down to the size he met me at) and he's like "Oh you looking REALLY good, are you working out" Whatever! Why didn't he just have told when we were going out i gained a little too much weight....i was MORE offended he didn't tell me the truth vs lying to me and saying he like my phat (fat) ***.
*sigh*
2006-07-31 19:09:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Actually, this isn't a praise. I USED TO (LOL) have this quandary. People might say "you are soooo thin"! And I'd get p*ssed. It is impolite and "thin" isn't exceptional. Perhaps, "wow, what a fine skinny determine you will have" might be extra like a praise. Being too skinny is a weight quandary too and some thing that individuals will not ever recognize. I used to drink Ensure, consume McD hamburgers...some thing to obtain weight. of direction, individuals hate you for it so I might not ever voice my quandary. But when you needed to prefer, you understand that you would instead be this fashion. I continually desired to inform a fats man or woman that insulted me w/ the thin factor to "consume a carrot" once they informed me to "consume some thing" At 36 and after havign a youngster, I suppose like my weight has evened out. I'm certain as you grow older, the kilos will pile on. In the intervening time, while this occurs once more simply inform the man or woman that you're self mindful approximately your weight and that their remark makes you suppose dangerous. They gets the message.
2016-08-28 14:42:08
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answered by sykes 4
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You are so right. People should tell the truth. If someone is asking you their opinion be honest, if the person is chubby tell them. Obviously the person knows they are chubby and you thinking you are saving their feelings that is wrong ! Because know you have insulted that chubby persons intelligence. I am with you 100% BE HONEST. (Great Question)
2006-07-31 19:03:03
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answered by smooches986 4
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Because maybe you are not fat, you just think you are, because you have a distorted idea of what you really look like. Just because some of us are above a size 2, it doesn't mean we are fat, this is a very wharped way of thinking and is very unhealthy for you.
2006-07-31 19:04:29
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answered by Anonymous
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A person is as light as he 'feels' !
Ask any elephant ! The diet seems to have no bearing on being fat !
2006-07-31 19:00:16
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answered by Spiritualseeker 7
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Coz they don't want to make u worry
It's not bout fat but r u healthy or not?
2006-07-31 19:12:24
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answered by aya 1
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they must be having a habit of lying
2006-07-31 19:00:29
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answered by Anonymous
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cuz you feel you're fat but in real you're not.
most of girls think like you. so, don't be worry!
2006-07-31 19:02:21
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answered by Cath_Y7777 2
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because he must be able to control himself
2006-07-31 18:59:16
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answered by rajesh p 1
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uhh, cuz theyre trying to be nice
2006-07-31 19:00:13
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answered by Anonymous
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