Curiosity.
2006-07-31 18:44:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We can forgive but we never forget, i believe if they do it once will do it again. if youve been cheated on then you werent respected or totally loved. if a man needs to cheat then hes not committed in the relationship he has. They need to earn your forgiveness, as your the one thats hurt. It totally destroys your relationship you will never fully trusyt again and you will be left feeling insecure.
2006-07-31 18:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! How could you forgive some one who hurt you, decieved and lied and broke all the promises and let me tell you only those guys do it who know that their girl is going to forgive him. So you must make him understand that you would never ever ignore or forgive this.
2006-07-31 18:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving & Forgetting the past is a wisdom.white lies can be acceptable but real cheats is bad for both sexes.
2006-07-31 18:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is an answer from a spouse who did the forgiving. and that i'm something yet susceptible and pathetic; i'm solid and pleased with myself. I forgave him because I merely ought to no longer walk out the door after seeing the regret, heart-wretching sobs of soreness and the love and care and concern coming from him in the route of me. He cheated for extremely stupid motives and now feels preserve of my love for him. He has shown me no longer something yet honesty and trust previously and now after he cheated. i'm no longer keen to throw away a 24 12 months previous relationship because of one stupid mistake he made. easily, it felt 'properly' to stay and that i'm now chuffed I did. look, there's a putting forward ' yet for there even if the grace of God, bypass I'. ought to very actual were me lower than the 'incorrect' circumstances. once ought to correctly be a mistake, yet two times is a diverse target.
2016-11-27 05:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forgive anything. If you wanna stay with that man, it would never work again. Way to much insecurity after something like that. I'm still friends with my ex's. FRIENDS, thats all.
2006-07-31 18:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have cheated for a reason. either they are not that interested in the partner they have or something is lacking in the relationship. if they feel the need to cheat i say let them go. they knew what to expect when they did the deed
2006-07-31 18:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is one thing, and should be given at every opportunity. Forgetting, that's another issue and entirely, and should never ever happen.
2006-08-01 06:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by illustrat_ed_designs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's done it once, he'll likely do it again, unless you can identify why he's doing it and work on it.
Else the traditional method of frying pan vs face will be enforced. and forgiveness would be far fetched.
2006-07-31 18:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by dawncng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD NOT FORGIVE SOMEONE THAT CHEATED ON ME,
BECAUSE TO ME IT ABOUT TRUST, AND WHEN THAT IS
BROKEN IS SO HARD TO GET IT BACK. YOU CAN BUT IT
HARD, AND TO ME PESONALLY IT NOT WORTH IT, I JUST
]FEEL IF YOU HAD A PROBLEM THEN STEP LIKE A MAN OR
WOMEN TO THE PERSON, INSTEAD OF CHEATING ON
THEM. IT JUST ME. THAT THINK LIKE THAT.
2006-07-31 18:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends . I did it for my man once , thinking it never gonna happen again and it happend again and I left him . I have no kids from him so this made the situation easier .
2006-07-31 18:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋