People are so rude on here. People ask questions on here because they feel more comfortable asking a question

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on the internet, instead of asking someone in person. Especially, when it is a personal question. If you have a friend who is married to someone 10 years older or 14 years older you wouldn't say eww to their face thats rude. No manners at all. However, on here you get mean people who are blunt who don'even know the older man who wants to date someone younger and say its disgusting , it won't work, you'll never be happy ,"craddle- robber", etc. things like that. I want a positive answer not a negative answer. Treat people the way that you would like to be treated.

Answer 1

eww

Answer 2

Personally, I would rather give an honest answer to a question.
Not ever intending to affend someone, but to give them an opion or an option of what they are asking about.
I do agree that some people are rude, but that is why you get so many answers to a question and you get to pick the one or ones that best help you out in the situation you are dealing with.
My mother married a guy who was quit a bit older then she is, and they have been married a long time. However I think that my mother is unhappy the older they get, cause my step father has a desease that is uncurable and makes him treat her badly, and she more than likely wouldn't have this if she married closer to her own age.
I personally think it depends on the ages for example if you are thirty and the other person is twenty then cool go for it , be happy
but if you are twenty and the other person is well that much younger then for god sake no. leave it alone.....
I think that is what most people think when you ask about age differences, unless you have stated the ages in the question so that people don't get the wrong idea.
Besides the other end of this question is if the person is in their seventies and is closer to dieing then why get together with a person who is so much younger....
I personally answer questions the same way I would like a answer to one of my questions, I want something that is helpful not hindering.

Answer 3

I know what you mean! I see some of these rude and not very understanding remarks made by people. I try to not be rude but as helpful as a can even if the question is a silly one. I usually stick to things that I feel that I can genuinely help out with. I don't think that 2 or 3 points is worth being so judgmental, but there are an equal amount of people who ask inappropriate questions and to those people I do not feel for.

Answer 4

In a way you answered your own question....I agree w/you that some ppl ask serious questions on here b/c they feel more comfortable and they're seeking serious answers.....well the opposite is true as well, some ppl answer questions in a rude and inappropriate manner b/c you're right they wouldn't do it in person, but they want to......when you don't want to hear someone else's issues you want to give them some sarcastic a$# comment, but you don't want to be rude......on here you can......the appeal of anonymity goes both ways......so you'll just have to deal w/it and that's a serious answer, might not have been what you wanted to hear, but does that mean I don't have any manners???

Answer 5

Look... If you have to really question something you're gonna to ask then do you really think you should be caught in public doing it?

For example do you really need to ask people if it's ok to pee on others front yard? You know most of them will not approve it, so are you gonna to do it in real life now?

That's why people are so mean when someone ask a question that common sense, some sense of culture and social should answer.

So if you want a realistic respond, ask a realistic question that is somewhat questionable such as "does religions affect marriage?" or something.

Answer 6

DeeDee, as you know, what we want, and what we get are not always the same.. I don´t know what your question was, but stipulating what kind of answer you want negates this whole process.. if you are asking someones opinion, you have to be prepared for a whole range of possible answers. Believe it or not, you will meet people in life that are not going to agree with you. It doesn't mean that they are right and you are wrong, it just means they don't agree with you.

Answer 7

People feel more comfortable. So people who aren't usually rude, can be rude without being in anyone's face. It's the same concept that you describe. You ask a sensitive question; you get a rude response. Because you can vent either way!

Answer 8

Maybe not, but they did want our personal answers. and i am sure there are a lot of people out there that really would say those things to someone's face.. There is nothing wrong with being truthful.. I would rather tell someone they are ugly to their face if they asked then to lie straight to they're face..

Answer 9

well don't mis judge all people... there are many likes me and u who don't act rude... and even so u know that u ask people who could be a doctors and people who could be a gang.. so u have very much the same of a chance to get a perfect answer or a stupid answer just for the 2 points...

Answer 10

respect got to be earned & don't demand or ask.
it is alright for a person ages differentiate between 10-15yrs older to get together with somethings in common. Cheers.

Answer 11

I realized REALLY QUICK that there are some real jerks on here that have nothing better to do than try to make people mad. All you can do is IGNORE them. Trust me, they are not going to quit and it's best to just accept the answers you want and disregard all the stupid ones. Not worth your time to worry about it. :)