I love this guy with all of my heart. I can't explain it. When I think about him or hear his name. Its like I go to a different world. All I want is to marry this guy, and start our family. He is my world. He is constantly all I think about. I just wanna walk down that aisle and become his wife. I wanna have his baby. I just want us to be a family. He is everything to me. So, do you think this real love??
2006-07-31 18:35:07 · 25 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-31 18:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by ezekiel2899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together?
The shorter the time, the more likely it is infatuation, or the feeling of "love at first sight".
Make sure you do not confuse love for him with a personal desire to get married and start a family. There is a lot more to a relationship than just getting married. Remember, life isn't like Cinderella. Good luck!
2006-08-01 01:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Aemilia753 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...how old are you? You sound really young or I'm just jaded either one. Probably a little bit of both. Here's the thing....you do sound like you're in love, but it doesn't sound like you have thought this thing through. It all good being in love...but you have to be savy too. is this guy really for you or are you just letting you emotions get in the way because he's your first love?
Think it through......really sit down with yourself and ask what you really see in this guy and is he REALLY everything you are making him out to be. Try to be level headed about this a little bit.....marriage and having children isn't just about love. It's about stability finacially and emotional....if you 2 are going to bring children into this world it's just not about you 2 and love.....honestly I don't want to sound like the barer of bad news but you can't live off of love alone. I know, I know it sounds harsh but that's life. Love fades.....it really does....does he have what it takes to stand the test of time? Personality, stablitity, maturity, rationality, ect. These are all the things that make a good marriage and raise descent children. Do YOU and HIM have what it takes to last the next 50 yrs. Can YOU really see yourself growing old with this person and spending ALL your time with them FOREVER!!
Divorce shouldn't be option btw.......and i know that's what just ran through your mind after reading that sentence and if that's true then no you shouldn't marry him.
2006-08-01 01:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be lover or lust, noone can tell you but yourself. You didnt say if you just met this guy, or have known him for a while. If you just met him it is more than likely lust or infatuation. If you have known him then it could be love. If he does not feel the same way though u could run him off. Whatever it is, dont rush things, if feelings are mutual then he will be there.
2006-08-01 01:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it, but there are ways to be sure. Have you loved him a long time? Have you loved him even in bad times? Just make sure it's not simply infatuation, because even a simple "crush" can make you say these things about a person
2006-08-01 01:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sanjo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like love to me. I would get to know him really well before marrying him just to make sure you both want the same things .
2006-08-01 01:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you are talking about this guy yes i just hope he feels the same way about you and that you shared these feelings that you have for him with him cuz he needs to know hey u told everyone else on this site.
2006-08-01 01:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet pea2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if you've ever heard the phrase "Love is a 2 way highway" but it NOT ONLY ABOUT YOU. What does HE want? Does he want kids? If not, what then, will you hate him? What if he doesn't want to get married and only hit it? Before you decide that it's ordained, find out what HE wants.
2006-08-01 01:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give you five for your description about your everdearest love, but you forget to indicate what he really feels for you..
true love is not always on one side, considering the other one is needed to go freely to the flow..
I know that you are a true person..and i know you how feel..
yah!! its true love...
gudluck!!!
2006-08-01 01:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by bassibass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww how sweet it sounds so much like you are in love. good luck!! i have the same feelings for a guy and i never thought i could feel that way about anyone ever again. good luck and best wishes!!!
2006-08-01 01:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by aprils242001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be BUT CAN YOU KEEP IT? do you have the skills and knowledge to make a good, lasting relationship? are you willing to learn from books on relationships?
real love is no good if you don't know how to keep it!
2006-08-01 01:39:34 · answer #11 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋