he has a TERRIBLE temper!! when he becomes angry he says he cant control himself, and then he goes psycho, shouting, punching walls, and slamming things. he's never done more than grab my arm. should i be worried?
2006-07-31 18:32:20 · 25 answers · asked by honey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
always a possibility.. but keep in mind he doesn't have to physically hit you to be abusive to you though... my ex-husband was like this... started out with light shoving and punching walls, then got a bit more physical than that (police were called on numerous occasions.) There are groups, if he is willing, anger management or something like that.... good luck
2006-07-31 18:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by hello_beautiful_222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be worried. One day he might get very mad or frustrated with something, then he might not know how to take out his anger. So he probably would feel good punching you or something.
Possibly he would feel bad if he would do that, but the damage is done already. He needs to find another way to express his anger.
Personally im very tolerant with everything. At my school im one of the nicest guys. Everything can control their anger, he just doesnt know how to, in a better way.
Email me if you need any further help.
-Edward
2006-08-01 01:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by cursedconcept 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship. Next time it will be you he punches!! Seriously, he has a problem. You don't want to end up badly hurt or worse...dead. I am not even kidding! I have a good friend who was shoved against a wall by her boyfriend in a fit of rage over a bill. She hit her head and died. What a waste!!!!
2006-08-01 01:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to leave A.S.A.P I was in an abusive relationship once. The guy came off as sweet as can be then....he changed, he had a bad temper as well. Little things would make him angry. he swore he would never hit me and one day he did. I left him, I had no choice. I can only hope that you will do the same.
2006-08-01 01:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by sugrnspice2xasnice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly advise you to get as far away from this violent man ASAP!!! What you see is what you get.
There are plenty of qualified mental health professionals that can help him. He already violated you with the arm grab.
Be wise and walk. Don't try to reason with him — he's dangerously irrational. Be safe and just eradicate him from your life before he does irreparable damage to you.
2006-08-01 01:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Get away from him as fast as possible!
He also will eventually become very controlling and try to cut off your tie with everyone so he can have you all to himself and control every moves you make.
Don't be stupid, leave him!
2006-08-01 01:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah, just imagine if you were the wall he punched. What's gonna happen when the wall isn't there to hit?
2006-08-01 01:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by curious? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl run and run fast. next time he loses his temper it may be you instead of the wall. And if you do decide to stay and he hits you hit his *** back
2006-08-01 01:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by lovetimepeace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weill if he hits you take the fight back at him How? kick him on the groin and when he is on the ground kick him on the face that will change his attitude.But my answer is to go somewere else he is not worth it. Go for on of those nerdy men they never show much anger like you friend.
2006-08-01 01:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yeah.
he has anger managements and tht can get really terrible after a while.
so mayb u could use a doctors help 4 it.
i suggest don't break up w/ him.he might come after u when he got sphyco.
take care!!!
2006-08-01 01:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by steff m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋