Ok, so here's the deal. I'll ask a question, and then maybe ten of them will be sincere, then the other 15-20 will be really negative answers, but here goes. I'm serious, now. The discussion of a 3some came up between my GF and I. I want to give you a little background....Her and I have been together for a little over a year, i've been divorced for a little over 2. Now, she doesn't live with me, and she's 23 and I'm 30. She said she would do it for me, and I kinda believe her. They're probably is no marriage in the picture, but I like her. So the question is, do I go for this? I didn't when I was married because I figured that would be the death knell, but we got divorced anyways. Is it worth it just to say I had the expierence? I'm talking having a 3some with another girl, not another guy. So??
2006-07-31 18:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by Shadow 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do it, especialy if you dont see yourself with her, eitherway it works for me and my husband and girlfriend, we just do whatever and it spices up our marriage, except when they ignore me and go at it while I am left out of the picture. but thats another story
2006-07-31 19:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
According to Maxim and Playboy Magazines (both of which surveyed thousands of people who have 3-wayed) the biggest problems that arise during a 3-way is the lack of a plan. It's imperative for all 3 people to communicate what they hope to get out of the 3-way and what they hope to do during it. You don't want anyone to leave feeling unsatisfied.
A bigger problem usually develops afterward in the form of jealousy; it is of the utmost importance that you let your woman know that she was so sexy and beautiful and make sure that any mention of it later from you focuses on how amazing she was. You pretty much have to act as if the other girl was only there for her enjoyment.
Otherwise; Good Luck!
2006-08-01 01:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by Richie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to then go for it. I agree that it probably won't be good for the relationship - if you are serious about the girl, and love her, and etc... don't do it just fantasize about it, maybe go to a strip club together buy her lap dances? If its something you think is worth going for than just do it who knows when the opportunity will come up again.
2006-08-01 01:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by VL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dating this girl and you don't see yourself marrying her so if she's willing go for it. But dont push her into something she doesn't really want to do just to satisfy your own fantasy. I've only done the old 3 the hard way once and it's not something I would do with my wife.
2006-08-01 01:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says yes, and you want to why not. I think women are more curious about that kind of thing than you may think. I would have a threesome with my husband and another woman, but I think it would make him uncomfortable. Plus, theres the part of finding the third party.
2006-08-01 01:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋