I am ready to have sex with my boyfriend...from what i think.
I just don't know how to approach it.
I am scared..but not cause I am not ready.
Please All Advice is welcome!!!!!
I'm 16
He's 17
Its been discussed and we we're waiting till I was ready. So just help me
2006-07-31 18:22:11 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been dating for 1 year wednesday.
everyone (my friends) have said that if they will/would date someone for a year by then or probably "six months" they would have given it up.
btw i am a virgin. so i am sure nervous.
2006-07-31 18:39:40 · update #1
i live in cincinnati ohio. and my mom will so not approve. nor my dad who will break out the gun lol. so it will be protected (condom) when it does happen. i am not on the pill.
2006-07-31 18:41:09 · update #2
YOU still need to wait chicky. Dont go giving yourself yet.
2006-07-31 18:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything you two should go to a teen clinic and talk to someone about what kind of protection you are going to use. If your planning on being sexually active its best to get on the pill or something like that. I'm not sure where you live but there are free and confidential clinics all over the place.
2006-08-01 01:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Fuzzybunny95531 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with yourpartner is a big thing.. Make sure you are ready.. Not "THINK" you are ready but "SURE" that you are ready.. No need to approach him and say that you are ready. Believe me, there will be an incident wherein you two will be very intimate and it would end up to sex.. Chill out and rethink your decision ^-^
2006-08-01 01:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex can change everything. for the better or worse, but i cant stand my own life so im not gonna preach to u whats right and whats not, so just talk to him about why u r scared see if u r truly ready or not and if so.... go for it
2006-08-01 01:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by branmcin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your ready. you will find that things are a little awkward at first, but then everything just becomes natural. let him take control but tell him if something doesnt feel right. oh and remember to have fun!
2006-08-01 01:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think that he's not using you, just let him guide you through the process and whenever you dont really feel comfortable, just ask him to stop. if he respects you, he will do what u want.
2006-08-01 01:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by answerboy119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's easy wait until the minister has pronounced you and him as man and wife!
2006-08-01 01:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋