my ex told me he would never cheat on me but he did and i found out.he tried to play the firend and acted like hestill liked me.i went back out with him and the next day i say him kissing her.i was hurt so bad.i never got over it.just the other day he called and said that we should hook back up.i still like him but should i give him a chance.
2006-07-31 18:21:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey i'm in the same boat as you... as much as it hurts, it's really hard to get back what was lost ~ the cheating is minor compared to the lying, and unfortunately, i think it is true "once a cheater always a cheater." of course there are a few who don't fall in this category ~ those who cheat once and feel bad and never do it again ~ but those are the ones who will fess up before you even have to ask. but as someone said to me, no one can tell you what to do, only you know that... just know, people mess up, but unless they see it for themselves and feel the consequences of it, they will not change...
2006-07-31 18:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by hello_beautiful_222 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is just using u for some action and clearly could care less about u. unless u want to constantly be hurt, never have a meaningful relationship and focus all ur energy on this guy i would dump him now and stop talking to him. if he calls ur cell dont answer just let it go to voicemail and when u see him just casually say hi and keep going. u can do much better than him and should give urself a chance. u cant meet any other guys with this one always hanging around! he clearly has no problems moving on.
good luck and keep ur head up high, ur too good for this jerk.
2006-08-01 01:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally speaking? No. There is this saying in my place that when a person fooled you once and you forgave him, it's okay.. It means you love him.. When he fooled you the second time and still forgave him, it's still okay.. But when he fooled you the third time and you forgave him, that's stupidity.. He's one example of a guy who never take his words seriouslly.. Wake up girl and smell the world.. I don't think this guy really loves you.. Move on and forget him..
2006-08-01 01:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, let's recap...
He lies to you.
He cheats on you.
He kisses your friend.
He calls you when he feels like it.
He decides when you should be together.
He decides when you should not be together.
What are his redeeming qualities again?
Why would you give him another chance? Another chance to lie, cheat and dismiss you at his whim? Call the phone company, change your number and move on. Surely, you deserve better than that.
2006-08-01 01:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like him no matter what, so either:
A) Do him and let him cheat so you can still like him.
or
B)Get over him and go out with someone else and do him on the weekends.
2006-08-01 01:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way , if you do ,you will be treated like dust and have to be dependent on his will , better ask him to leave you alone , you must control your emotions and sentiments . Do not allow anyone to play with you .
2006-08-01 01:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you must be young because all women know only one thing about men. And that is that they ALL lie. Especially when they say they will never lie
2006-08-01 01:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you like being cheated on. What is he willing to do to prove that he won;t let this happen again?
2006-08-01 01:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want 2 get hurt again then go back 2 him!!
2006-08-01 01:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by weird goth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, HE AND EX FOR A REASON,'
LET HIM STAY A EX. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAY A CHEATER
HE PROVEN THAT POINT ALREADY. DONT YOU THINK.
2006-08-01 01:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋