are guys attracted to girls who are more independant or social? only smart, or it doesn't matter? are guys attracted to girls who smoke and do drugs? outgoing or shy? popular or it doesn't matter? any girls reading this, prob know what im talking about, when u see a good lookin. guy with another girl, and your just puzzled as to what she has that you don't. i just want to know what some opinions are from guys out there...
2006-07-31 18:09:08 · 15 answers · asked by greenisthecolor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
likes attract likes
2006-07-31 18:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy is different. what im attracted to, the next guy may not be. i like an independent girl who is smart and doesnt smoke, who is a little shy. guys do the same too, we wonder why on earth you see some hot gilrs with an ugly dude. just be yourself and you will find that there will always be guys attracted to who you are.
2006-08-01 01:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im engaged now but when I was looking on the market I was looking for a girl that was clean showed respect and was willing to defend herself and her beliefs. Some guys just try to get the hott popular chick for the popularity but that ends after high school. Unfortunately some guys are just looking to get in a girls pants.
2006-08-01 01:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by newpastorofgod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but i was just talking about this very thing today. yes its odd when we see a good looking guy we do think how the hell did she get him. but then i thought about it. that it doesn't matter what a person looks like in the end its the personality that holds a relationship together. i cant imagine myself with a good looking guy if hes boring. i would rather have a nice plain guy with a wonderful bright adventurous personality
2006-08-01 01:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course all guys are different, yet I am a 23 year old hapily married man and I go for personality a good smile and a women who takes care of herself whether fat or skinny. She needs to be classy. It all matters what kind of guy your looking for if you want a one night stand dress like a slit but if you want a good guy go to college or the library or the grocery store and dress classy , good luck,
2006-08-01 01:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Gweedo8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking the wrong question because every guy is different and has different tastes.
I prefer my women to be slightly chubby, and have a mind of their own/independent.
2006-08-01 01:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by DeeK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally,
Like a chick who's honest. Not stuck up, understanding, not into smoking and drinking, smart at least not dull, daring, energetic, spontaneous? I don't ask if you want more...
2006-08-01 01:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are attracted to a wide variety of attributes a girl has.
It could be her wit, or charm...her voice, or attitude.
It could be the way she makes you feel when you are around her.
It could be the hint of what could possibly be....
What every guy desires.....whatever that is.
Or it could be that she bakes the best chocolate chip cookies around.
2006-08-01 01:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the people. one guy might like a woman who smokes but others hate it.
one might like those who are shy. others those who are popular.
it just depends on the guy really. same with the girls.
i mean with my guy now it was how devoted he was to his religion.
and yes...i don't care what people say...you do have to be physically attracted to ther person.
2006-08-01 01:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your assuming that all men are the same. Or they go for 1 type of girl. Its not that simple. People aren't that simple.
2006-08-01 01:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by Hard Rocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different strokes for different folks. Not every person likes or dislikes the same things about other people!
2006-08-01 01:12:11 · answer #11 · answered by flyingbumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋